r/IntrovertDating

Has anyone here actually tried Tawkify and felt like it was worth it long term?

I keep seeing it come up as more of a done for you dating option where a matchmaker handles everything and you just show up to real dates. I’m wondering how it plays out in reality especially since it seems like you’re paying more for the process and curation rather than guaranteed chemistry. Would love to hear real experiences before even considering something like that what was your takeaway?

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u/Strict-Speed3466 — 22 hours ago
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25 [M4M] Florida/Online - Looking to connect with someone

Hey! I am a 25 year old guy looking to make a connection with another guy and get to know each other and potentially flirt/date somewhere down the line. I wanna be someones good boy ngl.

Some things about me I am into games, anime, manga, horror media. Music wise I love indie pop, rock, pop, some edm, dark pop.

For games I play Fortnite, Rivals, Overwatch, Minecraft, League, Destiny 2, Warframe and a lot more I am sure we can find something in common to play! Bonus points if you’re addicted to gacha games like I am. Currently trying to catch up in Chainsaw Man atm but some of my other favorites are Kakegurui, Blue Period, Attack on Titan and Frieren.

I recently started working out more as well so can always use some more motivation for that.

Mainly looking for guys in my age range (24-28) and preferably someone in the same time zone although it's not a deal breaker. I am a very sentimental and affectionate person so expect that from me if we do make that connection :)

DM if you’re interested and tell me about yourself! This is my first time really putting myself out there (hate dating apps) so pls be patient with me

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u/SimplyHeather90 — 4 hours ago

My 1st Post on this sub!!

M25, based in Gurgaon. Been living a pretty comfortable, sorted life for the past 7 months but there’s one thing that’s been building up like crazy.

I’ve been single for almost 2 years now, and instead of fading, my libido has just been going through the roof. It’s gotten to a point where the frustration is real, constant, and honestly hard to ignore.

I don’t drink or smoke—never have—but I’m completely open if you do. In fact, part of me is curious about stepping a bit outside my usual boundaries and seeing how chemistry, tension, and the right vibe can escalate things.

Not here to waste time or play games just looking for something real, intense, and mutually exciting. If you get what I mean, you already know the kind of energy I’m talking about.

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u/happy_person04 — 2 hours ago

I am a cute young girl

Im Female, Croatian. Work wih music and love camping!
Looking for Males around ages 18-24 who wants a serious online relationship, preferabbly no from europe

I will accept dm's and will only respond to dms not posts

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u/livinginthemoment5 — 2 hours ago

Increase in bot/scam posts.

im not sure if this reddit has moderators or anything in place to stop these types of posts but my feed had been flooded all day with these types of post comming up and its obvious to anyone with half a brain that these posts are just blatant phishing scams designed to get people off site and extort them. Can you at the very least have a warning message in place or are we just meant to protect ourselves because that sort of thing exist on the internet. if im overstepping i apologize but its just really annoying having to manually hide/block every post like this that shows up.

Stay safe people and dont fall for these blatant traps.

"F36 deleting in 7 hrs. If you upvte and comment I'll instantly send

gooning vids in your DM

ilm shy here, i'll send it in my s0cial"

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u/HeavensMirr0r — 12 hours ago

26F will brighten your day if you up Vo^te

Hey there! If you're looking for someone to brighten your day with quiet conversations, inside jokes, and maybe even a little flirting, I'm your girl. I love deep talks, cozy nights in, and people who actually listen-no small talk required. I’m 26, introverted, and way too good at texting (ask my friends). Upvote if you’d vibe with a low-key, genuine connection-no pressure, just good energy. 😊

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u/Brief_One6611 — 20 hours ago
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Am I overthinking this guy’s behavior or is there actually something there?

So there’s this guy I’ve known through family for years, but since 2024 I started noticing him because he keeps staring at me—like intense eye contact, not looking away even if I catch him.

This has happened multiple times at different events over 2 years. But here’s the confusing part: he has never tried to talk to me, never followed me on Instagram (even though he follows a lot of girls), and never made any move at all.

Sometimes he even skips events where I’m there.

My sister says it’s just casual and I’m overthinking, but the way he looks feels very intentional and very deep!

So I want honest opinions:
Is this just normal behavior and I’m reading too much into it, or does it actually mean something?

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u/biryaniisbaee — 5 hours ago

[36M Sweden] Looking for marriage, love and happiness ever after. And chats. Chats are nice too.

The elevator pitch – tall enough to clean the top cabinets, strong enough too only cry twice when watching Marley & Me, and I´ve been told I´m quite intelligent (by my mother, out of pity). On occasion I also make people laugh (usually at me, rather than with me, but it still counts).

The disclaimer – I´m covered in a chaotic mess of tattoos that are vaguely reminiscent of the scribbling on a high school bathroom stall. I also have a deeply codependent relationship with my cats, and I once shoot myself in the foot with a BB gun to see if it would hurt (an action that might call into question my presumed intelligence, but oh well).

I live in a small city in Sweden, which gets kind of lonely, so I thought I´d give this a shot. Open to everything from casual chatting to dating (if someone would happen to pass by here in the middle of nowhere, as one casually does).

Got a picture on my account page if the estethics are relevant.

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u/CatnipMadeMeDoIt — 6 hours ago

32 [M4F] Europe/Belgium - When it just clicks

Ever had this connection where you could not put down your phone or hide your smile? Where it felt like just an hour, yet it's already 2 AM and neither of us wants to say good night? I miss that, though I do appreciate a good night's sleep nowadays too.

I hear you thinking "where do I sign up?". Well hold your horses there, don't you want to know a little bit more before diving in?

What you can expect

  • Late night Discord chats (or calls) where we yap about the silliest conspiracy theories and our deepest thoughts
  • Unsollicited cat pics
  • Game sessions, watch alongs, music sharing, movies, surprise me
  • Dad jokes. You're warned

What you should know

  • Calm, patient, and kind (those are not my own words)
  • Thoughtful, dreamer and a total hunk (these are)
  • Tall, slim, in decent shape
  • I prefer to take things slow. Let's discover how we vibe in an LDR first

Since I'd want there to be an opportunity to meet somewhere down the line if we hit things off, please be 24+ and in Europe.

My weak spots

  • Passions you can yap about for ages
  • Eyeliner
  • You don't need someone else to narrate your worldview and ideals
  • In ok shape

If you made it this far, congrats! And if that sparked your curiosity, I'd be glad to hear from you. Perhaps you can tell me what your favourite pass-time is on a free day like today?

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u/-Like_Tears_In_Rain- — 4 hours ago

18F looking for someone to chat and maybe build a connection!

Hi! I figured I would try my luck here, looking for a guy (or girl) to maybe build something with! I don’t wanna force anything so if youre not feeling it, thats okay!

A little about me, I’m working full time and i love to play video games in my free time. I love my dogs and watching tv. I love staying in my comfort zone, aka my home with my dogs. I really just want to meet someone and see where it goes. Hopefully someone with the same interests and hobbies.

please please put some effort in your message and not just hi or hey. try to start a conversation and ill do the same!

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u/Similar-Log-3774 — 16 hours ago
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