u/Ok-Supermarket4885

I was almost kidnapped around 2-3y and my mom never reported it. Instead blamed me and never brought it up again.

We were visiting my elderly neighbor in a nursing home back in my childhood home in sheepshead bay Brooklyn.
My mom was distracted talking to someone in the hallway, I wondered to the right not to far. Maybe 30-50 feet.

As I’m wandering the elevator door opens, a man in a work uniform. Dark collared shirt and holding a tray of some sort. He puts his hand out and signaled with his fingers to come into the elevator.

I was obviously too young to know better and thought since he looked like he worked there he had authority. I walk in and he quickly grabs me pulls me to the side of the elevator and put his hand around my mouth while spamming the shut button (or some button)

Crazy enough at that exact time my mom comes says my name turns her head looks in the elevator and was about 5 inches or less from shutting she puts her hand out at the very last second. Like I’m telling u movie type shit with only the tips of her fingers hanging out from the elevator and door opens.

He let’s go I run out and we leave.
She sat in the car a little and was in shock. Yelled at me then never brought it up again.

I don’t talk to her anymore. But I really hope that guy didn’t do that to others. And can’t help but think of what I coulda prevented if she spoke up.

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So I know I was physically abused by my mother. Who is a pill addict and alcoholic.
But this one instance I’m not sure if it was or just “parenting”

I was around 7-8 maybe younger. I was eating fruity pebbles cereal in my room. I dropped the cereal box on the ground spilling most if not all of the cereal.
She made me scoop up all the cereal off the semi dirty carpet back into the box. And made me eat it until it was finished throughout the weeks / months it took me to finish it. With hair, dust, crumbs in it.

My family has been texting me pretending to just catch up, but there secret motive in the convo is to just tell me to talk to my mom and send her a text on Mother’s Day/ her birthday. Aka she’s telling them to do this.

My mother is an alcoholic pill addict narcissist. Who is NEVER in the wrong. My whole life she ruined big events of mine, belittles me anyway she can, and was physically and emotionally abusive.

This all started Christmas when she got blacked out as usual and called me Christmas Eve saying she opened my gifts and hates them, checking receipts not liking how much I paid. (I had gift card so gift was much higher then what receipt said) she then goes on and on non stop saying the most vile things

My fiance who I’m about to marry, his mom died on Christmas Eve, and he had to work that day so he wasn’t in the best mood, we were moments about to leave to get drinks to celebrate/ grieve. And she calls starting a fight.

To sum it up she says negative things about his dead mother, says his mom would be disappointed in me and him. I call her insufferable and miserable and block her.

We don’t talk for a few months I unblock her for one week and go on somewhat good terms to hold the peace.

She wants to plan a wedding for me for my big family, then next day she says what if we just do a small dinner and I give you money? (So she can hold the money over my head) then turns into well you don’t have any friends to even have a wedding, who would you invite? No family is going to actually come. You think family is going to drive out and come for you?
She does the same textbook thing, leaves me a voice mail saying she’s abandoning me and is not my mother, and to have a good life.

I just am so sick of family acting like I’m the crazy one and just need to forget and forgive.