u/No-Character-2414

What do I do in this situation?

Im 14f, and became an atheist at age 10, I was born into a Shi'a Muslim family. I told my parents and 9 yo sister about my athiesm at age 12. Which made them vissibly upset but they havent told any relatives or friends. And I have these childhood friends in india, who I last saw at age 7(I met one of them at age 3, the other at age 6) but now our moms talk to each other on the phone to us and we last spoke to each other on phone at age 9, that's all, and this summer I'm going to see them IN PERSON, and am planning to keep my athiesm and level 1 autism and me being a tomboy a secret. But I'm worried they may find out and it could potentially be a big deal since I remember ONE of my friends(who comes from a muslim family and is Muslim herself) had a mom who would freak the heck about religion a lot, like shouting at me when I didn't pray properly. and she may tell my friend to stop talking to me. What do I do if they find out any of those things about me? And I also have this maternal grandma who'll freak the hell out about my athiesm since I know at age 9 when I was simply not praying enough she said to not talk to her, she'll probably get EXTRA mad over this. What do I do about THAT? Edit: I Know this seems a bit overdramatic, like I'm not loosing rights or anything if they find out, but why I feel otherwise is cuz these are people who I GREW UP with, I feel love for them and feel hurt about the risk that they may cut me off for this.

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u/No-Character-2414 — 1 day ago
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What do I do if this happens again?(CW)

So Im 14f, and before I changed schools, at the ages of 11-13 multiple guys were beating their meat infront of me, they'd do it in the middle of class, in the hallways and in the gym etc. And I know they werent just fucking itching, cuz nobody uses TWO hands to itch, and itching takes way less time than their hands were in their pants for, and I next time i see someone do this, i cant just shout what their doing to attract attention, cuz then ill risk embarrassing myself, How do I respond the next time some kid goons infront of me?

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u/No-Character-2414 — 4 days ago

What does this mean?

Im 14f in 8th grade, today we got these red shirts everyone has to wear. other kids got them signed by people so i did the same, and one girl, along with her name put "W.H.A.G.S", what does that mean?

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u/No-Character-2414 — 4 days ago

Can you guys answer these for my assignment pls?

Your age, and how you used to purchase music 40 years ago, 20 years ago, 5 years ago, and how do you purchase music in 2026, to those thinking "i wasnt alive 40 years ago", theres no age limit and ANY person's answer is helpful.

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u/No-Character-2414 — 5 days ago

Can yall answer these questions for my assignment?

Your age, and how you used to purchase music 40 years ago, 20 years ago, 5 years ago, and how do you purchase music in 2026, to those thinking "i wasnt alive 40 years ago", theres no age limit and ANY person's answer is helpful.

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u/No-Character-2414 — 5 days ago

Im going back to India

Im 14f, in 8th grade, I was BORN in India but moved to another country when i was 7 years old in 2nd grade, and was friends with 2 girls, one who i had known since age 3 and the other since age 6, and the last time i talked to both of them on phone was when i was 9, havent heard from them since. Though our moms continue talking about both of us to each other which is how i know they are still living near my old home in India, and im worried i might do something offensive or socially awkward due to my lack of knowledge about the norms in india, can yall tell me what not to do? any tips?

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u/No-Character-2414 — 5 days ago
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Can yall answer these for my assignment?

Your age, and how you used to purchase music 40 years ago, 20 years ago, 5 years ago, and how do you purchase music in 2026, to those thinking "i wasnt alive 40 years ago", theres no age limit and ANY person's answer is helpful.

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u/No-Character-2414 — 5 days ago
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What to say the next time this happens?

Im 14f with Level 1 autism, and 3 months ago some grown ass man comes up to my dad in Wholefoods laughing and asks him "is he autistic?" not realizing i can hear him, i didnt respond but my dad laughed too saying "yeah, how could you tell" and they continued yapping how the man works with autistic kids etc. and i only say "what is he saying?" to my dad to which my dad says "he said "you have a nice family"" but why the HELL would that involve laugther? i just stared at my dad as they kept on talking, Anything i should try next time this or something similar happens? what do i say to them? BTW my dad is actually aware im not comfortable telling ANYONE about my mental disorder.

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u/No-Character-2414 — 7 days ago

Give me ideas

im a 14 yo 8th grader, and my history teacher likes calling every kid "sweetie", so as I'm leaving class tomorrow I'll say "have a good day, sweetie" how could this go wrong, and how to make it funnier?

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u/No-Character-2414 — 7 days ago