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Com'è possibile che si possa far sedere un bambino a una scrivania per 10 anni e ancora non riesca a disegnare, mentre altre persone possono semplicemente prendere una penna e fare un disegno super realistico?

​Come mai alcune persone sanno cantare e altre no?

​Come mai alcune persone sanno giocare a calcio a un livello tecnico elevato e altri no?

​Come mai alcune persone riescono a memorizzare 150 cifre del pi greco e altri hanno una memoria così pessima?

​So che questi talenti (non abilità apprese, ma puro talento naturale grezzo) sono diversi tra loro per natura, ma da dove derivano?

Hi everyone,

I’m asking this with genuine curiosity and I’d really appreciate honest answers, even if they’re blunt.

At a certain age, would you consider it a red flag if someone has never had any romantic/sexual experience before? Like, completely inexperienced. No serious relationships, little to no dating history, still a virgin, etc.

I’m not talking about someone who’s emotionally unavailable or unwilling to learn/grow, but simply someone who got to adulthood without those experiences for whatever reason (shyness, anxiety, late blooming, life circumstances, difficulty meeting people, internalized stuff, etc.).

Would that make you cautious? Would you assume something is “wrong”? Or would it not matter much to you?

And if it would matter, what specifically would concern you?

Emotional immaturity?

Fear of having to “teach” someone everything?

Lack of confidence?

Pressure/attachment issues?

Social awkwardness?

I’m especially curious about real reactions versus the “nice” answer people give online. Like realistically, in actual dating situations, how do you perceive it?

Again, please be honest rather than reassuring. I can handle honesty better than sugarcoating.