u/New-Alps-2866

marriage without parents presence

im a woman, 25, and its been about seven years since i stopped talking to my family due to physical and verbal abuse against me. ive been talking to this guy (in a halal manner, always in public settings whenever we meet), and i have been considering the possibility of marriage with him.

lets say i do get married to him, will my marriage lose barakah? would it be invalid? i do not understand how a wali needs to be put in charge of a womans marriage... it would be more sensible to think that the prophet PBUH would trust women to take care of themselves...

Btw, both of us are Muslim.

Also, IF I even told my parents about my marriage with this man (he’s white, I’m Indian) they would say no simply because of where he is from… there’s an ayah in the Quran that says we should mingle with other cultures, so I do not understand why interracial marriages are so opposed in the South Asian community.

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u/New-Alps-2866 — 4 days ago

Need help moving out…

Okay, I’m an incoming second year uni student in the Middle East. I’ve had some issues with my parents which I’ve posted about on this subreddit but I cba to explain again. I wanna move out and transfer universities to the US without my parents knowing.

I understand how I have to get to that point but I’m struggling a little with the financial aspect of it. I get a monthly allowance but it’s not much, and I’ve been applying to like barista/sales jobs but it’s really hard to get them in the Middle East. I’m also applying to transcription/translation jobs but those are also hard to get.

For anyone that had a similar situation to me and managed to make it out alive, how did you deal with this financially? And what remote jobs can I do to become partially financially independent?

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u/New-Alps-2866 — 4 days ago
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Future medical centre phone number

Title. Need to book an appointment tomorrow so I tried calling the number on the website but it’s saying I’ve reached license limit? Can anyone provide me with an alternate phone number please?

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u/New-Alps-2866 — 5 days ago

Advice needed: (Dark) Red ink calligraphy tattoos

Hi! I’ve been looking to get a tattoo on my hip (inspo attached) in calligraphy but with dark red ink - I just wanna know if it’ll fade out/get fuzzy over time? I really wanna get the tattoo in an ink where the lines will stay sharp. I’m deciding between black, blue, and dark red, but red is my top choice hahah. I also wanna know if, out of the three inks I mentioned, any of them require touch ups over the years?

One last thing, say I wanna get it removed via laser, then which one is the easiest to get removed? Thank you in advance!

u/New-Alps-2866 — 6 days ago

Was looking into getting a tattoo… in a hidden area… for myself. Was tryna research if it was said in the Quran… it’s not, only in hadiths (above, Bukhari 5931). My question is, why not men? Or is there something I’m missing?

theres also a mistranslation! instead of face hairs, its supposed to say eyebrow hairs

u/New-Alps-2866 — 9 days ago

Basically title. I get that it depends on major and campus fame or wtv but I was just curious lol. What if someone transferring to Stanford in their junior year wanted to rush?

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u/New-Alps-2866 — 9 days ago

Basically my snap account (which I barely use) is linked to my school email address (stupid Ik) which I’ve now DELETED. I can verify that the email is mine so there shouldn’t be any security issues but does snap have the ability to change the email address linked to my account from their side???

Also I can’t find anyway to contact like a snap human customer service person so please help me out x

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u/New-Alps-2866 — 13 days ago