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I'm in speech and debate there is this girl I met in October I thought she was really cute. during a tournament out of town she came up to me and asked for my name then she said that I'd be going against her. we had a short conversation but it was nice I thought she was funny. after we talked I rested until my round. before my round i was waiting outside she sat by me and we talked a little bit then our round started. it went rough and we almost got in a screaming match and she called me a racist. after it I insulted her on her lack of evidence and my coach over heard it. a few minutes after I felt bad and I apologized to her amd she ignored me. on day 2 I was sitting alone and she apologized to me and we talked a little I felt great knowing that she apologized then it ended and I didn't see her for weeks. weeks later at a different tournament I was waiting outside the room where my round would be and there was a round going on in there. when I showed up there were these very loud kids and they got yelled at by a judge twice. after the kids left I sat down and was scrolling on my phone, then the door where the judge yelled at the kids opened and I saw her the girl I liked. she looked at me and said "I hope you know you talking out here was very disrespectful" then i stood up and tried to explain myself but then she said "idc you're a jerk" then she stormed off. I felt very upset I'm not an emotional person but I almost cried, on day 2 I was sitting in the hall with my friend and she walked by I pretended I didn't see her and didn't look up. after she left my friend turned to me and said "she was staring at you". later that day I was by myself listening to music and I saw her. she looked at me walked towards my direction then she hesitated and walked away I think she wanted to talk to me but got scared. a week later we are at a new tournament and I was talking to my friend then she came up to me and made a funny comment I stood up and we talked she apologized for yelling at me and said she was very stressed and just yelled at the first person she saw but she heard my explanation and apologized after we talked she had to go to round and I felt great. later I was talking to her partner and he said that they weren't doing so well then I asked as a joke in a joking tone "did your partner sell?" then she looked at me got mad and told me to fuck off. I apologized but she was mad so I left. a week later it's the final tournament and I was messing around with my friends and I made a stupid joke the girl I like over heard it and got mad but she didn't say anything until later where she told me to leave because of what I said I left and ger friend who is also my friend said that she wasn't actually mad she was just trolling which made scene because she's said similar stuff before. later I'm with a bunch of my friends and we were talking to the friend who is friends with her and she was nearby and she told me to leave but my friends can stay so I swallowed my pride and started to leave then one if my friends repeated the joke and she got very upset they started arguing and I dragged my friends away after about 20 minutes I went back to apologize 1 last time amd she put her hand in my face so I left.

I haven't seen her scene and I won't see her for a few months I still think about her I'm not in love with her looks I like her as a person and I feel like if we talk about it then we can become friends but I'm not sure I need advice on what to do

I'm in speech and debate there is this girl I met in October I thought she was really cute. during a tournament out of town she came up to me and asked for my name then she said that I'd be going against her. we had a short conversation but it was nice I thought she was funny. after we talked I rested until my round. before my round i was waiting outside she sat by me and we talked a little bit then our round started. it went rough and we almost got in a screaming match and she called me a racist. after it I insulted her on her lack of evidence and my coach over heard it. a few minutes after I felt bad and I apologized to her amd she ignored me. on day 2 I was sitting alone and she apologized to me and we talked a little I felt great knowing that she apologized then it ended and I didn't see her for weeks. weeks later at a different tournament I was waiting outside the room where my round would be and there was a round going on in there. when I showed up there were these very loud kids and they got yelled at by a judge twice. after the kids left I sat down and was scrolling on my phone, then the door where the judge yelled at the kids opened and I saw her the girl I liked. she looked at me and said "I hope you know you talking out here was very disrespectful" then i stood up and tried to explain myself but then she said "idc you're a jerk" then she stormed off. I felt very upset I'm not an emotional person but I almost cried, on day 2 I was sitting in the hall with my friend and she walked by I pretended I didn't see her and didn't look up. after she left my friend turned to me and said "she was staring at you". later that day I was by myself listening to music and I saw her. she looked at me walked towards my direction then she hesitated and walked away I think she wanted to talk to me but got scared. a week later we are at a new tournament and I was talking to my friend then she came up to me and made a funny comment I stood up and we talked she apologized for yelling at me and said she was very stressed and just yelled at the first person she saw but she heard my explanation and apologized after we talked she had to go to round and I felt great. later I was talking to her partner and he said that they weren't doing so well then I asked as a joke in a joking tone "did your partner sell?" then she looked at me got mad and told me to fuck off. I apologized but she was mad so I left. a week later it's the final tournament and I was messing around with my friends and I made a stupid joke the girl I like over heard it and got mad but she didn't say anything until later where she told me to leave because of what I said I left and ger friend who is also my friend said that she wasn't actually mad she was just trolling which made scene because she's said similar stuff before. later I'm with a bunch of my friends and we were talking to the friend who is friends with her and she was nearby and she told me to leave but my friends can stay so I swallowed my pride and started to leave then one if my friends repeated the joke and she got very upset they started arguing and I dragged my friends away after about 20 minutes I went back to apologize 1 last time amd she put her hand in my face so I left.

I haven't seen her scene and I won't see her for a few months I still think about her I'm not in love with her looks I like her as a person and I feel like if we talk about it then we can become friends but I'm not sure I need advice on what to do

I'm in speech and debate there is this girl I met in October I thought she was really cute. during a tournament out of town she came up to me and asked for my name then she said that I'd be going against her. we had a short conversation but it was nice I thought she was funny. after we talked I rested until my round. before my round i was waiting outside she sat by me and we talked a little bit then our round started. it went rough and we almost got in a screaming match and she called me a racist. after it I insulted her on her lack of evidence and my coach over heard it. a few minutes after I felt bad and I apologized to her amd she ignored me. on day 2 I was sitting alone and she apologized to me and we talked a little I felt great knowing that she apologized then it ended and I didn't see her for weeks. weeks later at a different tournament I was waiting outside the room where my round would be and there was a round going on in there. when I showed up there were these very loud kids and they got yelled at by a judge twice. after the kids left I sat down and was scrolling on my phone, then the door where the judge yelled at the kids opened and I saw her the girl I liked. she looked at me and said "I hope you know you talking out here was very disrespectful" then i stood up and tried to explain myself but then she said "idc you're a jerk" then she stormed off. I felt very upset I'm not an emotional person but I almost cried, on day 2 I was sitting in the hall with my friend and she walked by I pretended I didn't see her and didn't look up. after she left my friend turned to me and said "she was staring at you". later that day I was by myself listening to music and I saw her. she looked at me walked towards my direction then she hesitated and walked away I think she wanted to talk to me but got scared. a week later we are at a new tournament and I was talking to my friend then she came up to me and made a funny comment I stood up and we talked she apologized for yelling at me and said she was very stressed and just yelled at the first person she saw but she heard my explanation and apologized after we talked she had to go to round and I felt great. later I was talking to her partner and he said that they weren't doing so well then I asked as a joke in a joking tone "did your partner sell?" then she looked at me got mad and told me to fuck off. I apologized but she was mad so I left. a week later it's the final tournament and I was messing around with my friends and I made a stupid joke the girl I like over heard it and got mad but she didn't say anything until later where she told me to leave because of what I said I left and ger friend who is also my friend said that she wasn't actually mad she was just trolling which made scene because she's said similar stuff before. later I'm with a bunch of my friends and we were talking to the friend who is friends with her and she was nearby and she told me to leave but my friends can stay so I swallowed my pride and started to leave then one if my friends repeated the joke and she got very upset they started arguing and I dragged my friends away after about 20 minutes I went back to apologize 1 last time amd she put her hand in my face so I left.

I haven't seen her scene and I won't see her for a few months I still think about her I'm not in love with her looks I like her as a person and I feel like if we talk about it then we can become friends but I'm not sure I need advice on what to do