u/MentalHoney7225

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40 [M4F] #san Francisco CA. Introvert looking for love

Hey everyone I'm currently looking for someone that is an introvert or a very quiet person particularly like myself I have anxiety and have a hard time socializing and communicating and expressing myself in the right way especially in relationships. If there are any females out there that struggle with this and they're looking for a relationship I'm definitely looking for the same right now. I'm from New York originally but moved to San Francisco California and I came here for a fresh start with a limited amount of money and since I got here I've been pretty lonely and it's hard for me to talk to people. If someone wants to talk and build a friendship and maybe more please I'm open for that. Mike

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 1 hour ago

An introvert Seeking a connection

40/M seeking long term

Hi everyone my name is Mike and I am 40 years old and I was given the curse of being an introvert lol with antisocial tendencies and social anxiety. I have only been in three long term relationships my whole life. The first one was five years, the second was 10yrs and the last one, which I may add was the most toxic of them all which lasted 7years. I felt like I was dating my mother if that makes sense (the dynamic where the woman was bossy and just plan talked to me like I was some little kid. I finally broke out of that relationship two years ago and have been single since and I am very traumatized by it. All together I have six kids I have five boys and one girl.

It takes a lot of energy for me to change my personality to be able to socialize with a woman to be able to begin a possible relationship.

Over the years I have become much calmer and I am a very quiet person, I can be content just sitting there and not talking and just listening. Alot of it had to do with my social anxiety. I just feel like such a boring person and I get down on myself and feel like I have nothing to offer.

I'm from New York originally and just moved to San Francisco literally three weeks ago. I know It sounds stupid but I took off from New York with a limited amount of money and a dream. Ever since I came to San Francisco, I been of course doing things productive like e getting my health insurance set up, got my food stamps transferred and I been setting up appointments for financial assistance and housing. Aside from that I'm in a foreign city and I don't know not one person. I honestly feel intimidated by the people when I go outside downtown and I find myself hurriedly walking to get my tasks done then when I'm back at my motel I just sit there or sleep and it is so depressing. I just wish I didn't have this horrific fear of people and isolating tendencies. I am really shy and it gets the best of me.

Is there anyone out there particular females that struggle with what I'm talking about? I know deep down I'm a good person and I know that once I get comfortable with someone I can definitely be socialable. I just can't seem to have the desire to break through my nervous timid shy and panic mentality to be able to make a friend. Everyone is just so judgemental and even the slightest flaw like stuttering for example can be the deal breaker when meeting someone which goes downhill. I'm also looking for someone who I can share a special connection with and maybe more

If anyone can relate please I'm definitely here looking for a friend and more .It's pretty lonely in a foreign City. Mike

u/MentalHoney7225 — 2 hours ago

The one that's shy

Hi everyone my name is Mike and I am 40 years old and I was given the curse of being an introvert lol with antisocial tendencies and social anxiety. I have only been in three long term relationships my whole life. The first one was five years, the second was 10yrs and the last one, which I may add was the most toxic of them all which lasted 7years. I felt like I was eating my mother if that makes sense (the dynamic where the woman was bossy and just plan talked to me like I was some little kid. I finally broke out of that relationship two years ago and have been single since and I am very traumatized by it. All together I have six kids I have five boys and one girl. It takes a lot of energy for me to change my personality to be able to socialize with a woman to be able to begin a possible relationship. Over the years I have become much calmer and I am a very quiet person, I can be content just sitting there and not talking and just listening. Alot of it had to do with my social anxiety. I just feel like such a boring person and I get down on myself and feel like I have nothing to offer. I'm from New York originally and just moved to San Francisco literally three weeks ago. I know It sounds stupid but I took off from New York with a limited amount of money and a dream. Ever since I came to San Francisco, I been of course doing things productive like e getting my health insurance set up, got my food stamps transferred and I been setting up appointments for financial assistance and housing. Aside from that I'm in a foreign city and I don't know not one person. I honestly feel intimidated by the people when I go outside downtown and I find myself hurriedly walking to get my tasks done then when I'm back at my motel I just sit there or sleep and it is so depressing. I just wish I didn't have this horrific fear of people and isolating tendencies. I am really shy and it gets the best of me. Is there anyone out there particular females that struggle with what I'm talking about? I know deep down I'm a good person and I know that once I get comfortable with someone I can definitely be socialable. I just can't seem to have the desire to break through my nervous timid shy and panic mentality to be able to make a friend. Everyone is just so judgemental and even the slightest flaw like stuttering for example can be the deal breaker when meeting someone which goes downhill. If anyone can relate please I'm definitely here looking for a friend. It's pretty lonely in a foreign City. Mike

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 2 hours ago

In hostel

Hey everyone I'm currently in a hostel because I am homeless and I'm on the waiting list for the shelter so in the meantime my family is helping me stay here short term. My family doesn't get paid until Thursday so tomorrow I have no way to cover the room and I'll have nowhere to go. If anyone could help me I would greatly appreciate it it's $35. Thanks

u/MentalHoney7225 — 2 days ago

Staying at a hostel

Hey everyone please don't respond back with anything negative. I'm currently homeless and have been staying in a hostel with my family's help. Tomorrow I don't have anyway to cover the balance because my family doesn't get paid until Thursday. It is $35 a night. Any help would be greatly appreciated. I'm on the waiting list for the shelter so I'm pretty much just here until there is an opening. Thanks for listening

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 2 days ago

Homeless in San Francisco

I'm currently homeless right now in San francisco. There is a waiting list for the shelter and I have been waiting for 3 weeks already I am absolutely beyond stressed out. Does anyone have any ideas where I could speed up my process of getting in the shelter or becoming a priority? Thanks

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 2 days ago

Hi everyone I'm new to San Francisco I just got here 2 weeks ago I'm originally from New York and I decided to leave my home state and start a new life with a limited amount of money. I didn't realize how expensive it is here and I have been staying in a motel but I'm almost at the point where I'm almost out of money and I can't afford it. The thought of being homeless is absolutely scaring me and I don't know what to do. I'm a 40-year-old male and I have been looking for work but no luck yet. If anyone could help me with housing I would greatly appreciate it in exchange for help around the house or whatever please let me know 716-359-9887

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 13 days ago

Hi everyone I'm a 40-year-old male and I am new to San Francisco I just moved here two weeks ago I'm originally from New York. I spontaneously decided to move far away and start a new life with a limited amount of money. I didn't realize how expensive it is here and I have been staying at a motel and I'm almost out of money. I've been applying for jobs but no luck so far. The homeless problem is really scary here and my biggest fear is being on the streets and I'm sick of my stomach over it. If anyone could help me with a room or housing in exchange for help around the house or anything you name it let me know I have some of the small budget not a lot of money but I could definitely contribute until I make more money getting a job. Feel free to contact me 716-359-9887

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 13 days ago

Hey everyone I'm do this San Francisco I just got here two weeks ago I'm originally from New York. I spontaneously decided to leave and start a new life with a limited amount of money. I'm almost at the end of my money and I have been staying in the motel and I no longer can afford it. I'm still looking for a job but having trouble. If anyone could help me with a room I would greatly appreciate it I don't mind helping out cleaning etc I have some what of a small budget right now. if anyone could help I would greatly appreciate it

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u/MentalHoney7225 — 13 days ago