r/OkCupid

Hello Everyone. I was using OkCupid for dating, and I matched with a Filipino Girl (26) and I am 28, from Germany.

We had few video calls (almost two hours for each call) and we incredibly went along pretty well. It seems all natural and she invited me to go for a visit in her hometown. I am family oriented and I told her I am looking for a life-time partner, and she is on the same page.

I added her on Facebook and she has 1200 friends, and the profile has few years. On Instagram she has 200 friends but still it seems she is real and it is not a profile made for scamming (there are video with friends as well).

My question is: there should be something I should take into consideration, like red flags, or strange behavior, in case I really want to visit her? It's a big step and I would like to be sure there is no scam or whatsoever.

Do you know about any European going to Philippines for dating? Which are the cultural differences I should take into consideration, as a German person? I would like to bring her here, and she agrees that one day she would come in Europe, if everything goes well.

I do not consider her anything than a potential partner, of course, and it seems a bit strange she feels so ok with me and she also asked few sexual questions after the second call (like how I am on bed, which positions I like and so on).

Maybe it's just an inner fear, please help, thanks :)