Heyy guys so I just wanna ask can I resit my a level exams while in uni ( I’ll be in the gateway year)?
Not particularly happy with my grades and I want to aim for a stars. U never know if certain jobs will require higher a level grades.
I’m starting uni in September!
Hey guys. Idk from where to start but some background ab me : 19 middle eastern.
I started wearing the hijab at 11/12. Since I was 17, wearing the hijab became a burden. Every time I went out I’d look at how pretty the non hijabis looked. I just wished I could go out like that. I wish I could style my hair and wear cute fits out. It started to get worse and worse to the point that I hate going out now bc every time I see a non hijabi, it reminds me that I can go out and look like that. I always have to make sure my fits r loose when I go out. It’s so annoying esp bc I love tight fitting clothes. Now I just wear cute fits at home and wear makeup at home I have no where to go out with these clothes. I struggle w depression and a constant low mood and this just makes it worse. I wish I could look cute and go out.
This is my first time posting in this sub feel free to share ur thoughts, advice or whatever in the comments 😊
Heyy guys. I think my dad hates my sisters and it makes me feel so bad for them. He fully crashes out on them for the simplest shi ever like making a mess in the bathroom or forgetting to pray. I’ve noticed not a day passes by without him crashing out or getting angry at someone.
At first, I thought it was bc of work stress. But he stopped working a few months ago and it’s so much worse now bc he’s at home more so more things to crash out on.
I’ve noticed how peaceful the house is when he’s traveling. My sisters are more at ease and get to “live their childhood” ig.
I rmbr the day befor my interview, my sister made a mess and he starting shouting at her like it’s something big. I got really upset and my sister stayed in my room and asked me “don’t u wish we had different parents” I genuinely didn’t know how to answer that. I was so upset the day of the interview like genuinely sad and just having the worst day ever and dad asks me y I look upset. He thought it was bc I was nervous for the interview. I didn’t answer him. Mom does absolutely nothing and to her apparently my and my sisters are in the wrong and he’s always right.
My mom kinda threatens my sisters by “ I’ll tell dad” if they don’t listen to her. It’s so frickin annoying. Unfortunately, I was raised the same way of threatening “I’ll tell dad”. Y do we need to be scared of him?
He started a discussion ab my uni options and how I should choose the one with the highest rank. I don’t care ab rankings plus they change every year and apparently to him im crazy for not picking the one with the highest ranking and then told me how he’s not forcing me to choose one.
After that conversation mom came to me and said that I was being too defensive in that conversation and that I wasn’t respecting him. But I genuinely don’t get her? He’s the one that started the conversation and bc I don’t agree with him I’m being disrespectful?
Also it’s important to go back 2 years from now. Where I got accepted into a certain major that wasn’t medicine. It was my dream uni tho. That day he was so angry with me that I wanted to continue in that uni and not study medicine. He said that he wasted all his money on me for me not to listen to him. He shouted at me that day and again my mom said that I have to listen to him and that I’m in the wrong. He said that I mustn’t study that major bc companies don’t want female employees for that field. It was just super frustrating bc y didn’t I have the option of choosing ?
When we were talking about the uni options I kinda got Deja vu ( remembered when he was angry I got the wrong major) and wanted to get my points across this time. Bc 2 years ago I just let him shout and said nothing. Idk if that was defensive that I got my points across.
Also he has this annoying thing of “what I say goes” it’s so annoying. Like if my sisters don’t do smt the way he wants he takes away their iPads or tells them to stand up for whatever time as punishment.
When my sisters fight or argue like all siblings in the world do he gets so angry at both and punishes it’s so stupid. Like let them fight and solve it on their own? I tell my sisters to solve their own problems and not tell dad bc he makes it 100 times worse.
I was showing them my new outfits and youngest sister says “looks like a grandmas outfit” sarcastically. My sisters r very sarcastic. He instantly crashes out and tells her he’s gonna hit her next time wtff!? I told him she’s joking with me but he didn’t care.
He always has to remind us of how hard he worked for us to get the best this and the best that and that we’re better off like I get it but the constant reminding makes it annoying
I feel so bad for my sisters I wish they didn’t have to go through that.
That’s it. Drop ur opinions and comments or anything in the comments
Pls no dms for obvious reasons just type in the comments 🤍🙏
Heyy guys. I think my dad hates my sisters and it makes me feel so bad for them. He fully crashes out on them for the simplest shi ever like making a mess in the bathroom or forgetting to pray. I’ve noticed not a day passes by without him crashing out or getting angry at someone.
At first, I thought it was bc of work stress. But he stopped working a few months ago and it’s so much worse now bc he’s at home more so more things to crash out on.
I’ve noticed how peaceful the house is when he’s traveling. My sisters are more at ease and get to “live their childhood” ig.
I rmbr the day befor my interview, my sister made a mess and he starting shouting at her like it’s something big. I got really upset and my sister stayed in my room and asked me “don’t u wish we had different parents” I genuinely didn’t know how to answer that. I was so upset the day of the interview like genuinely sad and just having the worst day ever and dad asks me y I look upset. He thought it was bc I was nervous for the interview. I didn’t answer him. Mom does absolutely nothing and to her apparently my and my sisters are in the wrong and he’s always right.
My mom kinda threatens my sisters by “ I’ll tell dad” if they don’t listen to her. It’s so frickin annoying. Unfortunately, I was raised the same way of threatening “I’ll tell dad”. Y do we need to be scared of him?
He started a discussion ab my uni options and how I should choose the one with the highest rank. I don’t care ab rankings plus they change every year and apparently to him im crazy for not picking the one with the highest ranking and then told me how he’s not forcing me to choose one.
After that conversation mom came to me and said that I was being too defensive in that conversation and that I wasn’t respecting him. But I genuinely don’t get her? He’s the one that started the conversation and bc I don’t agree with him I’m being disrespectful?
Also it’s important to go back 2 years from now. Where I got accepted into a certain major that wasn’t medicine. It was my dream uni tho. That day he was so angry with me that I wanted to continue in that uni and not study medicine. He said that he wasted all his money on me for me not to listen to him. He shouted at me that day and again my mom said that I have to listen to him and that I’m in the wrong. He said that I mustn’t study that major bc companies don’t want female employees for that field. It was just super frustrating bc y didn’t I have the option of choosing ?
When we were talking about the uni options I kinda got Deja vu ( remembered when he was angry I got the wrong major) and wanted to get my points across this time. Bc 2 years ago I just let him shout and said nothing. Idk if that was defensive that I got my points across.
Also he has this annoying thing of “what I say goes” it’s so annoying. Like if my sisters don’t do smt the way he wants he takes away their iPads or tells them to stand up for whatever time as punishment.
When my sisters fight or argue like all siblings in the world do he gets so angry at both and punishes it’s so stupid. Like let them fight and solve it on their own? I tell my sisters to solve their own problems and not tell dad bc he makes it 100 times worse.
I was showing them my new outfits and youngest sister says “looks like a grandmas outfit” sarcastically. My sisters r very sarcastic. He instantly crashes out and tells her he’s gonna hit her next time wtff!? I told him she’s joking with me but he didn’t care.
He always has to remind us of how hard he worked for us to get the best this and the best that and that we’re better off like I get it but the constant reminding makes it annoying
I feel so bad for my sisters I wish they didn’t have to go through that.
That’s it. Drop ur opinions and comments or anything in the comments
Pls no dms for obvious reasons just type in the comments 🤍🙏
Heyy guys. I think my dad hates my sisters and it makes me feel so bad for them. He fully crashes out on them for the simplest shi ever like making a mess in the bathroom or forgetting to pray. I’ve noticed not a day passes by without him crashing out or getting angry at someone.
At first, I thought it was bc of work stress. But he stopped working a few months ago and it’s so much worse now bc he’s at home more so more things to crash out on.
I’ve noticed how peaceful the house is when he’s traveling. My sisters are more at ease and get to “live their childhood” ig.
I rmbr the day befor my interview, my sister made a mess and he starting shouting at her like it’s something big. I got really upset and my sister stayed in my room and asked me “don’t u wish we had different parents” I genuinely didn’t know how to answer that. I was so upset the day of the interview like genuinely sad and just having the worst day ever and dad asks me y I look upset. He thought it was bc I was nervous for the interview. I didn’t answer him. Mom does absolutely nothing and to her apparently my and my sisters are in the wrong and he’s always right.
My mom kinda threatens my sisters by “ I’ll tell dad” if they don’t listen to her. It’s so frickin annoying. Unfortunately, I was raised the same way of threatening “I’ll tell dad”. Y do we need to be scared of him?
He started a discussion ab my uni options and how I should choose the one with the highest rank. I don’t care ab rankings plus they change every year and apparently to him im crazy for not picking the one with the highest ranking and then told me how he’s not forcing me to choose one.
After that conversation mom came to me and said that I was being too defensive in that conversation and that I wasn’t respecting him. But I genuinely don’t get her? He’s the one that started the conversation and bc I don’t agree with him I’m being disrespectful?
Also it’s important to go back 2 years from now. Where I got accepted into a certain major that wasn’t medicine. It was my dream uni tho. That day he was so angry with me that I wanted to continue in that uni and not study medicine. He said that he wasted all his money on me for me not to listen to him. He shouted at me that day and again my mom said that I have to listen to him and that I’m in the wrong. He said that I mustn’t study that major bc companies don’t want female employees for that field. It was just super frustrating bc y didn’t I have the option of choosing ?
When we were talking about the uni options I kinda got Deja vu ( remembered when he was angry I got the wrong major) and wanted to get my points across this time. Bc 2 years ago I just let him shout and said nothing. Idk if that was defensive that I got my points across.
Also he has this annoying thing of “what I say goes” it’s so annoying. Like if my sisters don’t do smt the way he wants he takes away their iPads or tells them to stand up for whatever time as punishment.
When my sisters fight or argue like all siblings in the world do he gets so angry at both and punishes it’s so stupid. Like let them fight and solve it on their own? I tell my sisters to solve their own problems and not tell dad bc he makes it 100 times worse.
I was showing them my new outfits and youngest sister says “looks like a grandmas outfit” sarcastically. My sisters r very sarcastic. He instantly crashes out and tells her he’s gonna hit her next time wtff!? I told him she’s joking with me but he didn’t care.
He always has to remind us of how hard he worked for us to get the best this and the best that and that we’re better off like I get it but the constant reminding makes it annoying
I feel so bad for my sisters I wish they didn’t have to go through that.
That’s it. Drop ur opinions and comments or anything in the comments
Pls no dms for obvious reasons just type in the comments 🤍🙏
Heyy guys. I think my dad hates my sisters and it makes me feel so bad for them. He fully crashes out on them for the simplest shi ever like making a mess in the bathroom or forgetting to pray. I’ve noticed not a day passes by without him crashing out or getting angry at someone.
At first, I thought it was bc of work stress. But he stopped working a few months ago and it’s so much worse now bc he’s at home more so more things to crash out on.
I’ve noticed how peaceful the house is when he’s traveling. My sisters are more at ease and get to “live their childhood” ig.
I rmbr the day befor my interview, my sister made a mess and he starting shouting at her like it’s something big. I got really upset and my sister stayed in my room and asked me “don’t u wish we had different parents” I genuinely didn’t know how to answer that. I was so upset the day of the interview like genuinely sad and just having the worst day ever and dad asks me y I look upset. He thought it was bc I was nervous for the interview. I didn’t answer him. Mom does absolutely nothing and to her apparently my and my sisters are in the wrong and he’s always right.
My mom kinda threatens my sisters by “ I’ll tell dad” if they don’t listen to her. It’s so frickin annoying. Unfortunately, I was raised the same way of threatening “I’ll tell dad”. Y do we need to be scared of him?
He started a discussion ab my uni options and how I should choose the one with the highest rank. I don’t care ab rankings plus they change every year and apparently to him im crazy for not picking the one with the highest ranking and then told me how he’s not forcing me to choose one.
After that conversation mom came to me and said that I was being too defensive in that conversation and that I wasn’t respecting him. But I genuinely don’t get her? He’s the one that started the conversation and bc I don’t agree with him I’m being disrespectful?
Also it’s important to go back 2 years from now. Where I got accepted into a certain major that wasn’t medicine. It was my dream uni tho. That day he was so angry with me that I wanted to continue in that uni and not study medicine. He said that he wasted all his money on me for me not to listen to him. He shouted at me that day and again my mom said that I have to listen to him and that I’m in the wrong. He said that I mustn’t study that major bc companies don’t want female employees for that field. It was just super frustrating bc y didn’t I have the option of choosing ?
When we were talking about the uni options I kinda got Deja vu ( remembered when he was angry I got the wrong major) and wanted to get my points across this time. Bc 2 years ago I just let him shout and said nothing. Idk if that was defensive that I got my points across.
Also he has this annoying thing of “what I say goes” it’s so annoying. Like if my sisters don’t do smt the way he wants he takes away their iPads or tells them to stand up for whatever time as punishment.
When my sisters fight or argue like all siblings in the world do he gets so angry at both and punishes it’s so stupid. Like let them fight and solve it on their own? I tell my sisters to solve their own problems and not tell dad bc he makes it 100 times worse.
I was showing them my new outfits and youngest sister says “looks like a grandmas outfit” sarcastically. My sisters r very sarcastic. He instantly crashes out and tells her he’s gonna hit her next time wtff!? I told him she’s joking with me but he didn’t care.
He always has to remind us of how hard he worked for us to get the best this and the best that and that we’re better off like I get it but the constant reminding makes it annoying
I feel so bad for my sisters I wish they didn’t have to go through that.
That’s it. Drop ur opinions and comments or anything in the comments
Pls no dms for obvious reasons just type in the comments 🤍🙏
Hi everybody would love ur opinions and insights and advice whatever u feel like writing ☺️
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I got an offer today after being on the waitlist - gateway a108. I’m so happy I can’t believe it 🥹🥹🥹🥹
Interview - 27 Jan
Waitlisted email - 11 march
Track update - today 5.25 pm
I was so worried I was gonna be rejected. I’m so grateful. For everyone that got waitlisted don’t lose hope. No news is good news (until 13 may)