u/Mean-Cold-891

So, it was my first time ever seeking therapy and something felt wrong with it?
Firstly, they put me in a closet-like room to do a video call with said therapist. Which is fine! But it definitely added to the strange atmosphere.
1.) The therapist is an older woman who quickly seems confused with my presence— turns out she thought I was a different patient and sits there for 20 mins messing with her computer settings before we even start talking.
2.) about halfway through this first ever appointment (I still haven’t been screened) the topic of me being a trans man comes up and things quickly get weird. No matter what I’m talking about, she steers the conversation back to me being trans- despite that not being what I’m there for. She asks me strange questions like “do you want treatment for that” then quickly backpedaled and adds “I mean, did you have the surgery?” And keeps talking about how she had a trans friends, pretty much anything else trans related you could think of.
3.) I have (what I call) medical anxiety, I can’t sleep at night because I wake up having panic attack, usually thinking I’m having a heart attack. I can’t eat cuz I’m scared I’ll get food poisoning, I get constant air hunger, food paranoia, scared that someone laced my food (even if it’s illogical) and I have multiple panic attacks daily for up to hours. I tell her all of this and she says “oh it’s just normal anxiety.” Is it? I didn’t think so, so, I added that the term anxiety didn’t feel right for me. She then told me I need to “go home and look up what anxiety means.” UHM??? Is it just me or is that rude? She also said I should go to the ER and get high blood pressure medication cuz that would probably fix it. Mind you, I had just told her I’m scared of medication and don’t want to take it. Also, that felt like an odd thing to tell an already medically scared patient right?
4.) LASTLY, she gets passive aggressive for me being “late” despite the fact it was a walk in appointment and she spent the first 20 mins messing with her computer.
—- so, AITAH/overreacting for switching therapists when this might be normal behavior? Am i correct in thinking this was odd?

So, it was my first time ever seeking therapy and something felt wrong with it?
Firstly, they put me in a closet-like room to do a video call with said therapist. Which is fine! But it definitely added to the strange atmosphere.
1.) The therapist is an older woman who quickly seems confused with my presence— turns out she thought I was a different patient and sits there for the first 20 mins messing with her computer settings before we even start talking.
2.) about halfway through this first ever appointment (I still haven’t been screened) the topic of me being being a trans man comes up, and things quickly get weird. No matter what I’m talking about, she steers the conversation back to me being trans— despite that not being what I’m there for. She asks me strange questions like “do you want treatment for that” then quickly backpedaled and adds “I mean, did you have the surgery?” And keeps talking about how she had a trans friends and anything else trans related you could think of.
3.) I have (what I call) medical anxiety, I can’t sleep at night because I wake up having panic attack, usually thinking I’m having a heart attack. I can’t eat cuz I’m scared I’ll get food poisoning, I get constant air hunger and multiple panic attacks daily for up to hours. I tell her all of this and she says “oh it’s just normal anxiety.” Is it? I didn’t think so, so, I told her the term anxiety didn’t feel right for me. She then told me I need to “go home and look up what anxiety means.” UHM??? Is it just me or is that rude? She also said I should go to the ER and get high blood pressure medication cuz that would probably fix it. Uhh? Mind you, I had just told her I’m scared of medication and don’t want to take it.
4.) LASTLY, she gets passive aggressive abt me being “late” despite the fact it was a walk in appointment and she spent the first 20 mins messing with her computer.
—- so, am I crazy here or was she really being odd like I thought? Either way I switched therapists and it sucks this was my first ever experience

Let me explain. I do post on TikTok about being punk (as accurately as I can WITHOUT being seen as a ‘TikTok punk’) and recently I got into a small argument about how you need music to be punk. So, let me unpack my ideology on this. —
For me, without the music you’re just an extreme leftist. So, for example, let’s say someone fights against injustice but they hate everything to do with punk. By all means they have the mindset of a punk but they hate what punk is and hate the music. Are they still punk because they fight for rights but hate everything punk is?
For me, to make the difference, I say a punk is someone who has the ideology AND enjoys punk music. So, only ideology= ‘leftist’ (in simple terms) ideology + music = punk
If you disagree I’d love to know why!
In summery, someone who only has the ideology of a punk = just an activist/leftist in my mind. Someone who has the ideology AND likes punk music is punk. Since we know not every leftist is a punk, the only way I know to draw a difference is music and interest in the subculture. If you disagree, why? What can you draw the difference from? — essentially, Can someone who hates punk as a whole but has the ideology of one still be punk?

(SOLVED) Hi! every time the game enters a loading screen or sometimes even large animations, the game freezes, music stops— then eventually crashes. How can I fix this?

I have the Ryujinx canary build.

ignore missing services, ignore controller applet, and skip dialogue is all turned on.

I also have it set to OpenGL and audio on openAL.

low power pptc is on, and the dram size is set to 4GiB (since lager seems to make it run worse)

I’ve tried purging cache but that also doesn’t help.

lastly I also have in handheld mode but no luck.

I’m running it on a Lenovo Ideapad3 laptop.
any ideas on how to fix this? Thanks again

EDIT: Switching back to Vulkan fixed the game. sometimes for lower end laptops this actually runs better. Hope this helps someone