so my niche is mental health and I made things like ''whats actually in my control?'' sheets etc but I am wondering what social media platform is the best to market within mental health wise?
So I have already created my digital products but I am so stuck on on how to market it and I have tried reddit but a lot of subs are strict, would love some help thanks 😄 (and yes I am aware it is not going to make me rich over night)
I was reading an ebook about motivation the other day and one of the things that really changed my whole mindset is literally just to stop being so scared of just TRYING. Sitting and just wondering when life will move forward is not going to help you change how things are for you now unless there is ACTION so my biggest advice is that one SIMPLE effort can change everything and that so many do not realise how many chances they may miss out on all because they are too scared so please when you see a chance take it or you will regret it, after reading that ebook I just went like ''wow this just really changed my way of thinking and that if I took on chances earlier I would've had a more positive outcome on my life such as choice wise''.
(I hope this post makes sense since I was writing this half asleep)
I was reading an ebook about motivation the other day and one of the things that really changed my whole mindset is literally just to stop being so scared of just TRYING. Sitting and just wondering when life will move forward is not going to help you change how things are for you now unless there is ACTION so my biggest advice is that one SIMPLE effort can change everything and that so many do not realise how many chances they may miss out on all because they are too scared so please when you see a chance take it or you will regret it, after reading that ebook I just went like ''wow this just really changed my way of thinking and that if I took on chances earlier I would've had a more positive outcome on my life such as choice wise''.
(I hope this post makes sense since I was writing this half asleep)
name of sub is r/StartingAdultLife
So I made a subreddit that's mainly just for discussing/seeking advice early adult life and I think it would be suited for introverts that want to ask questions regarding adult life so comment if your interested and I will drop the name of it (its a new one)
Feel free to join my subreddit if you wanna just rant on about life as an adult
So I am terrified of socializing with people but I have a desire to see the world, anyone got any advice or countries that I should start off visiting
Hi everyone, I really need advice on how to not be afraid to want a relationship again after being heartbroken by your first love 3 years ago (he broke up with me) and that every time I even think about love I start to feel scared and cry since I am terrified that the next one will just leave without closure and that some days I feel like time is running out as a 19 year old while all of my other friends are in relationships.
So this guy was my first love and we got together when we were both 14 and dated for two years (broke up at 16). one day just a couple of months before he breaks up with me he stopped saying I love you back to me and for some reason I never questioned it (yes I should have addressed it the day he stopped saying it and I now feel like such an idiot) until the same month we broke up since I was scared to even ask why due to my fear of him leaving.
When I addressed it to him he sat me down and told me he wanted to go on break since he did not know if he wanted a relationship anymore and I just sat there and started pouring out tears wondering what I did wrong for him to question our relationship and he just stared not knowing what to do so than I just agreed to the break.
A FORNIGHT LATER
during the break we still talked but just did not do any romantic things so he acted like we were friends. So the night he broke up with me he did it over text but here's the thing earlier on during the same day he was like to me ''I still want our relationship'' and obviously I was happy (NOW BACK TO LATER ON AT NIGHT) when he texted he basically told me he lost feelings for me and that his reasoning of changing his mind all of a sudden that he just did not want to be with me anymore and he only said he wanted to resume the relationship just to make me happy.
I just kept texting him ''why'' and ''this hurts so much'' and ''was I good enough?'' while screaming and crying. He kept apologising and with ''I know'' so he pretty much did not know what else to say and he did not give me closure at all, after we were done texting I just started crying so much and I even could not sleep for the whole night and just kept sobbing wondering what was so horrible about me for him to break up with me this way?.
Only a couple of days after the breakup I decided to confront him at school why he did this and why he lost feelings since there was no proper closure. he was just telling me that he just did not want a relationship anymore and wanted to focus on the things he enjoyed doing which was sport and that he told me he wont get with anyone else since he specified he just wanted to be single, I started sobbing in front of him telling him how he hurt me so much and that if 2 years meant nothing to him and I guess he tried to comfort me in his own way awkwardly such as offering me his lunch and I shook my head in a ''no'' than I just ran off to the bathrooms and cried so much that I did not realise my friends were running after me.
So after that even I just went home early and cried lots more and my friends called me after school to check on me and they told me that after I ran off crying he also sat back down with his friends and he started crying (hearing that also made me cry even more since I still loved him very much back than). ever since we spilt I sat by myself during class (I had one class with him only) and it was a small class but mainly just with popular kids (yes he was apart of the popular clique).
FAST FORWARD TO THE NEXT YEAR WHICH WAS OUR LAST YEAR IN SCHOOL
so it had been 4 months since the breakup and I found out he had gotten a new girlfriend. I cried seeing them together at school since I was hurt that he told me ''I wont get with anyone else'' when we split and this new girlfriend of his decided to target me for no reason (I have never even talked to her at all and did not know her) starting with making subtle remarks about me online and what made it worse he did not call out her behaviour towards me, He also put in effort to do the bare minimum for her such as giving her flowers and not ashamed to show her off in public which he never did for me during our time together (he did show me affection but it was in private and was genuine).
FINAL NOTES OF MY STORY
For some context I was always shy and quiet growing up while my ex was the complete opposite and his circle was the popular group. He was the one to fall for me first and apparently he liked me for a couple of years but never said anything until one day I followed him on social media because back than I normally followed just about almost everyone in the cohort so I had no idea he liked me and he was the one to start talking to me first so we got together a few days after talking.
While we were together I was still true to myself such as sticking with my small circle still and did not try to pretend to be an extrovert. However his friends complained that I was too quiet (btw his friends never even greeted me or made conversation at all) and I was baffled that they had the audacity to complain and he was like to me ''could you please try to talk? everyone keeps complaining''.
So while we were broken up one of my friends told me that one of my ex's friends said ''When (my name and his name) were dating she brought him down to her level'' implying that my social status was not suitable to be with him just because he was popular (my friend defended me when she heard that remark). Another thing was that apparently my ex was still thinking about me despite him having a new girlfriend which left me so confused.
So now its been almost 2 years since graduating school I am doing better than I was 3 years ago when all of this happened but there are nights where I question my worth and think back to the break up while crying and I have not tried dating again. I still have no idea why he lost feelings for me so I just came to the conclusion that I will just never know
I do hope he is doing well now in life and that he gets the things he's always wanted.
So yeah that's my story of how my very first love and heartbreak happened.
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