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the rise of baba culture and religious organization

as a haryanvi I'm seeing the rise of baba culture and unnecessary making and development of religious organization and mandirs ( iam hindu so I will talk abt mandir only to ye gyan mt leke aana ki muslim ko na bola )

like iam seeing a shift like my grandfather used to worship his land and animals but aj kl ka youth and family started believing in random baba ji . and baat rahi mere gaav ki ek mandir phle se tha and gaav ne faaltu k rupiye fookh k ek aur mandir bnwa diya idk why issey better roads saaf safai n baaki cheezo mei use kr skte the .. why do you think ppl of haryana jo phle itne religious ni the started following ye baba and woh laddu gopal wala trend indont understand this ki ek moorti ko you treating like a human being uske kapde badlna usko school le jaana regular bath hair cleansing n all .. what are you opinion on this rise of baba culture laddu gopal culture and religious sites making and formation of organizations ???

u/Maleficent-Dog6937 — 3 hours ago

I’m 19 and just started investing with a ₹1,000/month SIP for the long term (planning at least 5 years).

Current split:

- ₹500/month in Bandhan Small Cap Fund

- ₹500/month in HDFC Silver ETF FoF Direct Growth

I put my first ₹500 into each at the current NAV/price shown in the app when I bought, and I plan to continue the same monthly.

My thinking was:

- small cap for higher long-term growth potential

- silver for diversification since it doesn’t always move exactly like equities

I know both can be volatile, and I’m okay with short-term ups and downs because this is money I don’t need immediately.

I’m mainly trying to understand whether this is a sensible way to start, or whether a 50/50 split is too heavy on silver for someone my age.

Would you keep this allocation for 5 years, or would you shift more toward equity/index funds instead?

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u/Maleficent-Dog6937 — 12 days ago

I've been noticing this girl at my college during exams for the past few days, and I'm genuinely interested in talking to her. The situation is a bit tricky though - we only have two exams left, and after that I'll probably never see her again.

The problem is, she's always with a small group of 2-3 friends. don't feel comfortable interrupting or approaching her directly in front of everyone, especially since she doesn't know me at all. At best, we've just briefly noticed each other a few times - nothing more.

I also couldn't find her on Instagram, so I don't have the option to reach out online. That leaves me with only these last couple of chances in person.

I don't want to overthink it and miss the opportunity, but I also don't want to come across as awkward or intrusive by approaching her in a group setting.

What's the best way to handle this?

How do I approach her when she's always with friends?

And what's a simple, natural way to start a conversation in this situation?

Any advice would really help - I'd rather try and risk a little awkwardness than regret not doing anything at all.

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u/Maleficent-Dog6937 — 20 days ago