r/Haryana

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So nothing much ek clip dekhi mene reddit pr was about jaat ( kuch chutiye community ka naam khraab kr rhe h ) which was ok pr comment section was like full of bullshit jaat ,gujar ,haryana ,punjab or sikh ko ptanhi kya kya kh rhe the or like kinda saying then "DESH DROHI" ek lod* ko koi ss mila google se use baar baar show kr rha tha { everyone knows jaats and sikhs contribution to the country even in freedom or in sports or in agriculture or in any field {{{{{https://www.reddit.com/r/TharCriminals/s/WL53KB1Ibm}}}} thats the link of the clip will u guys please give it a min and either dow*vote the comments or give them a reply

I know you won't agree with me... But you all believed a "dummy" wrestler's claim that he was subjected to casteism... Lol. Wrestling is a sport where caste doesn't matter... It's all about stamina and skill... Do you even know the meaning of casteism? Remember a recent example? Bodybuilder Rohit Dhankar was killed because he belonged to a particular caste... And that boy was the only sole breadwinner ; His only fault was that he belonged to a particular caste... Isn't this casteism ?then everyone was silent... now everyone is targeting the same community... Let there be no bias against one caste;

I dont have an elder brother and somebody I can genuinely ask for advice. I come from a broken unconventional home.
I was a good student since start, scored 95+ always in my school and college.
I was in a relationship with this girl from last 8 years who cheated on me and then married a Haryanvi influencer last year in November. I couldn't cope ip with cheating and broke down completely
Went into clinical depression and several panic attacks in the span of Last 2 years.
That part is over now.
I have healed from it.
But in these last 2 years, I LOST MY TOUCH TO STUDIES, but as I said, I come from a broken home,
There is extreme pressure to earn .
I was preparing for DEFENCE exams, but couldnt get medically fit.
Now, i am left with No option other than preparing for UPSC CSE exam.
But it will require at least 2 years of preparation and it is tooooo much time to ask from my parents and sit ideally. Though they wont force me.
But even I am not sure if I will be able to crack the exam.
Hence, other option is Getting into corporate sector. I gave multiple interviews and I am only able to crack BPO/Call centre interview Because of My BA/Arts background.
The Job is in Industrial Area Chandigarh.
They are offering me 23K per month but Night shift .
This can further deteriorate my Mental health as disturbed Natural body clock due to Night shift.
And I wont even get any time to study for UPSC Or any other govt exam.
But That money can solve lot of my problems and can give me much Needed confidence as I am already 25 year old grown up Man but still not able to earn a single Penny. So its veryy humiliating.
But at the same time, I fear giving up on my dreams just for this little money witj No future prospects.

What should I do?
Should I drop further years? Or should I join this Job? Please advise seriously 🙏🙏🙏

What exactly is left for Republic of India to do to help end casteism? There is protection of jobs from outsiders through domicile wall, protection of jobs from other reserved castes, preferential treatment in all policies, UGC act which will inevitably be reinstated.

Some caste enthusiasts claim that casteism can only end through inter caste marriage?

Is that the endgame?

hello everyone so when I was a kid my father got posted somewhere in Haryana.

He is a soldier in the Indian Army and I'm from somewhere in the northern hilly states. I did my 10th class from a CBSE school in Haryana.

I'm considered an upper caste although I don't believe in caste hierarchy.

So when we moved to Haryana, I faced heavy groupism against me. People from different castes used to come from nearby villages. Jaat, Gujar, Banjara, Valmiki, Lubana these were the populous castes of that school

Aside from being called chinki and abusive slurs just because I look a bit different, I also faced selective targeting. People did try to pick fights with me because they knew I didn't have local support. It was the hardest time for me tbh.

And now I'm graduated from a college and I had the option of shifting to GGN or Pune. And I chose Pune because of the news that surfaces all the time. .

And now when I did some research about castes, i came to know many of these were forward castes like Jaat, Gujar, Lubana. These were traditionally Shudra castes. And they used to worship their ancestral temples, which were in their farms. What Brahmins did to them 100 years ago, they are now doing to other castes just to feel superiority.

And the government didn't give them reservation because of their land holdings. They are forward castes. And both forward castes and upper castes come in the general category (सामान्य वर्ग).

And now I see casteism has risen to new peaks due to the rise of caste-based songs, reels, and everyone trying to pull each other down.

Even sc's do discrimination against sc's the same I see from castes like Valmiki, Ramdasiya, and other castes. Even they try to show they are superior to others. Last Nov 2025, in my friend's area which was a Valmiki-majority area, there was a clash between Ramdasiya and Valmiki people because a Ramdasiya boy married a Valmiki girl. And somehow it dented their caste pride and they fought.