u/MagalieB0654

She only became a manager about two years ago, and I’ve been working at this store since March 2025. Now she’s suddenly telling me I can’t wear bandanas. No one mentioned that during my interview, and I’ve been wearing bandanas with my braids the entire time I’ve worked here. I’ve even walked past other managers who never said anything. But yesterday, the customer service manager, and I’m a bagger, told me bandanas aren’t allowed and said she should have remembered to tell me earlier.

I get it. Rules are rules. But that should have been addressed a long time ago, not a year later. It’s April 2026 now. If it was really an issue, why wait this long?

And honestly, it’s not just that. She micromanages constantly. There is already a set schedule for carts, but she still sends multiple people out to check them, sometimes every fifteen minutes. It feels unnecessary and stressful. A lot of employees are annoyed by it. She is not mean, but the way she hovers makes it hard to relax or just do your job normally.

The other customer service manager is much more laid back. She trusts the schedule and does not keep sending people out over and over. When the micromanaging manager is there, my anxiety goes up because it feels like I am always being watched or about to be corrected for something.

I had a mom who reminded me a lot of Cristina Yang at first. She was certain she didn’t want children and was committed to that. But after her high school boyfriend died, the grief overwhelmed her, and she made a different choice. She had me through IUI, hoping it might help her heal, but it didn’t work out that way. Over time, she became more like Ellis Grey, cold, distant, and deeply focused on her career as a lawyer rather than on being a parent.

I was mostly raised by her late boyfriend’s mother, who is still in her life. I call her Mama Bea. I am not entirely sure why I am sharing this, but I think it is because characters like Cristina and Ellis bring up a lot for me. It is strange, though. I still love Cristina, and I really love Grey's Anatomy.

The fact that Catherine of Aragon's children either died while she was pregnant or were stillborn, Anne Boleyn miscarried many times, Henry Fitzroy passed away at the age of seventeen, Jane Seymour passed away eleven days aftet giving birth to King Edward VI (preventing her from having any more children with Henry VIII) and said son dying at age fifteen, Henry VIII finding Anne of Cleves unattractive, Katherine Howard never becoming pregnant, as well as Catherine Howard remaining childless (she did end up having a daughter but not with Henry VIII), and Queen Mary I dying without any children.

Not coincidences. It was God's plan. She was destined from conception to be the future Queen Elizabeth I.

I can't ever see them as endgame if Dana's actress hadn't left the show. Their personalities are too similar and in my opinion they would've argued constantly, upsetting and irritating their friends, and would break up and get back together, break up and get back together, etc. Their relationship would've been similar to Beck and Jade's from Victorious.