Am I correct? Need reassurance
He’s had a long history of abusing me physically, mental and emotionally in front of his other children.
After I got the courage to leave I put a restraining order against him because he was calling my job and trying to get me fired with a bunch of lies. He also somehow knew where I was one day (I assume he has people watching me) and showed up and assaulted my male friend. ( who is pressing charges).
I had to get the restraining order to keep him away from me or i fear he’ll ruin my life.
I told him to go through the court if he wants visitation because I’m not comfortable leaving my 10 month old baby alone with someone who is narcissistic with extreme anger issues. Or her growing up around the toxic environment he creates. Here’s screenshots of what I’m dealing with. I just need reassurance because I feel guilty for keeping her away but at the same time I feel it’s what’s best for her. I don’t trust someone that can insult an innocent infant like that. Especially their own. Just in spite of me. Are my instincts correct???