u/KeyMacaroon6822

hi, has anyone you know or yourself gone done either of these paths? It quite interesting it I haven’t seen much or met anyone who knows much about it.

i’m 21 and i heard stories of older women saying they wish they dated more and had more sex and whatever else. I am most definitely not saying i wanna have sex with everyone i date btw.

but i was told by people older than me but younger than them say never date unless it’s serious cause it’s a waste of your time and energy.

questions:

what would u do if u get to go back and date again in your 20s?

do you ever look back and wish u took it more seriously or less seriously?

i had thoughts about nuclear med and also therapeutic radiography.

i was told i should do ct cause everyone should know it and also interventional cause its the future.

any thoughts on nuclear physics or medical dosimetry?

also does my gpa matter a ton?😬 i mean its not bad but things saying i need 3.5 and above…

okay i’m 21(f) and i smoke a lot and i knowww that the smell is not easy to shake off. she walked into rooms and says it smells like it and she makes comments on my red eyes.

okay she knows buttttt after i tend to feel really bad cause i know it’s disappointing but after she acts totally normal and i would say prettt nice.

her brothers used to smoke and stuff so it not new and she definitely knows the smell. also my siblings got caught but i never got explicitly caught.

i have never seen my parents smoke ever. and she doesn’t even drink. she allows the drinking but we don’t mention it aloud.

what do parents think in these situations? does she hate me for that?😬

i heard first hand that guys always live one particular girl no matter what. and they could like and love other girls yes but it’s not the same. idk if it’s the type of love or the amount of love.

i’ve heard stories of men naming their kids after past loves and so on. i knew a guy that would still bring up his ex in every fucking thing after like 3 years so so. like everyday he will connect things to her and i’d say he’s a pretty transparent guy so im wondering if guys do that secretly.

like would they hide their love for their exes for a relationship but still feel that intense sense of losing the one.

i get so scared of meeting men that already had the one and then u unknowingly can only get placed 2nd at best.

what makes a girl “the one”?

generally i prefer if no one knows i smoke, even other smokers sometimes. Sometimes a guy will tell me it’s fine when they find out and I’ll still try to hide it.

they used to be able to smell it or taste it immediately and they’ll call me out lmaoo and i’d get embarrassed but theyll say it’s fine. anyway i kinda believe it’s never really fine.

even if they are smokers themselves they get kinda weird after and i regret letting them know. this happened enough to the point where ill just hide it for the start but sometimes they catch on and i get scared and embarrassed.

my questions..

-can i really hide that?

-do they hate that secretly or will form bad opinions about it even after saying it’s fine?

-is lying about it making it worst?

also i’m talking about weed not cigs, but if you have an opinion about that one then please share as well :)

i have a friend who cheated on the love of his life a few years back and said that he regretted it cause he loved her.

he said he regretted doing that but then i asked him if they got back together would he cheat again and he deadass said “i would definitely be tempted but probably not”. mind you this man said it’s his biggest regret.

anyway, he said that men can cheat and still love their gf and that ALL men if given the opportunity would cheat. he was like the only way a man won’t cheat is if he simply can’t get another girl.

after all that he said this is how guys are. obviously i know it’s not all of them but is this common thinking?

hi, i (21f) have been dating men from ages 22-26 and they ALL have a story about being heartbroken and not believing in love anymore.

i’ve never been in a super serious relationship so im not sure if i just feel left out but every guy at that age is so heartbroken and unwilling to do anything but wallow in self pity.

will they be like this forever or just a phase young people go through?

are all secretly guys like that at this age?

hi, someone told me that as a man they would know if a girl slept with someone else before seeing them. not directly before but like in between visits yk. i asked for elaboration but he just said that men knows.

is that true and how do you know?