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i asked my deck "does he think he's in love with me" about an ex after i pulled a spread that said he's going to reach out (knight of cups). i only pulled the one card, the nine of swords upright. how do i interpret this?
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i did a spread asking about my POI and specifically asked if he “will want to he just friends” and got the world and queen of wands. i didn’t know how to interpret this considering where currently no contact, so any help with this would really be appreciated!
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so i’ve been trying to manifest SP for a few weeks now, i haven’t been doing any crazy methods or anything just affirmations that im a baddie, he wants me so bad, he’s coming back to me, he knows we’re meant to be, thinks of me all the time etc…..and things were going well. i haven’t been stalking his socials or looking at old messages/photos or anything, just knowing that he’s coming back because ofc he is we’re soulmates.
BUT THEN DUN DUN DUNNNNN
last night i had a dream (NIGHTMARE 🫣) where i texted him and asked him about what happened between us and if we could get back together and he texted back “no u lost ur chance, never again” and he basically just kept saying over and over that things were over between us. i also saw him in person in the dream (NIGHTMAREEEE) and he was sitting inf front of me and i asked him if he still had feelings for me and he just looked annoyed and said “ no ive moved on”. i then asked if he lost interest and he said “ofc its been months”.
not totally freaking out cuz this isn’t enough to set back all my progress but what does this all mean??
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i’ve been on bupropion for almost a year atp and like 4 months ago started on lexapro. since then ive had crazy dry mouth and my mouth tastes bad frequently, like even a few minutes after brushing my teeth/flossing/tonguescraping/ mouthwash. does anyone have any good fix recommendations ? lexapro has been a lifesaver and i really dont want to get off of it but this is getting very annoying.
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i drew two cards answering: is he my soulmate? pulled king of cups, five of pentacles reversed
and another two: am i his? ace of wands reversed and three of cups
my interpretation is that yes for both, but mayb not romantically w three of cups? im not sure so if anyone would be able to help i would appreciate t. thanks!
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im super new to tarot and am trying to understand all the cards better. specifically the ten of wands has come up ina. few spreads for me (both upright and rx) and im wondering how to best interpret it? like upright is carryign a heavy burden and struggling, but reversed is that read more as the burden made u collapse and have a breakdown or is it taht you've now released what was once burdening you/weighting u down? im sure it also depends on the surrounding cards but if anyone could explain how they personally interpret it that would be great!
thanks so much!!
pulled nine of swords, the world, the hierophant rx, the empress, and three of wands
were currently no contact after i ended things because the of an imbalance in our situation at the time (ended a few months ago).
i always struggle with interpreting the world in these readings, like with nine of swords he’s anxious and overthinking things, and the hierophant reversed is like a non-traditional relationship (we were fwb), and then the empress is obvi like nurturing feminine energy, and with the three of wands is looking ahead (towards his own future or looking for a future w me idk)
any help would rly be appreciated!
it’s been almost 3 months no contact between us now (with liek one instance where i reached out and he responded, but i texted twice after that and got no response over a month ago).
i’ve been feeling pretty decent about my manifesting having an effect on him though i haven’t seen any progress in the 3D. atp im wondering if i should reach out and see where it goes or wait for him ?
any advice would be appreciated
when pulling for "will he reach out?" i got the emperor. for context we've been no contact for a few months after i ended things.
online i've seen mixed things, one that it means he will reach out once things are more stable/secure, and the other is that his ego is high and he's firm in his decision to not reach out. thank u!
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was in a situationship/fwb arrangement for a few months before i ended things cuz he didn’t want to commit. it’s now been almost 3 months of basically no contact (with one blip about a month ago, haven’t heard from him since tho).
i’ve been trying to manifest for a little while but idk if i’m doing this right. i see people on here talk about a few days or a few weeks of no contact but it’s been months now and idk if im too late. any advice would be really appreciated
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i 21f met this guy in college 21m off a dating app (bad start). i’d been on it for years and have gone out with dozens of guys but never had sex or even made out with any of them. i have my own personal sexual trauma and eating disorders that has made me very averse to touch and men in general, let alone sex.
we meet and he’s super persistent from the get go about meeting up and me going to his apartment (literally immediately after we matched on the app, that same night). me being naive i thought he just wanted to hang out. i didn’t even consider sex was on the table (stupid ik) cuz every guy id gone out with always wanted to start slow. anyways i tell him i wanna meet somewhere else cuz i dont know him and he said yes of course.
fast forward we’re at this place talking for like 15 minutes and he says “u wanna go back to mine?” and i say sure cuz its kinda late and i figured he just wanted to go somewhere else. we get to his place and now im getting jerky and scared. we have a big night difference (over a foot and a half between us, im a short person and he’s very very tall) and we were in his room and i felt the walls closing in when he stood there and asked to hug me. he said i was so awkward and that we didn’t have to do anything i didnt want. i thought he meant it and we could just hang out. fast forward he keeps asking to kiss me so i give in and let him. we end up doing more stuff after he asks and it feels good so we keep going.
we didn’t have sex tha first night, i was very firm on that; but he kept asking and asking even after i told him i was a virgin and wasn’t ready. he told me that he really really liked me and was so nice and sweet and said he wanted to see where things go.
fast forward, we meet up one more time before we have sex. i mostly initiated it cuz i wanted to do it cuz i trusted him and he knew wha he was doing (he has over 30+ bodies) and cared a lot about making me feel good.
fast forward more, he starts acting super distant and different. he made it clear that he never wanted a relationship from the get go and i knew he was sleeping with other people. i was hurting but i stayed. i gave him everything in hopes i would change his mind. he liked my body, so i gave it to him whenever he wanted. i would offer it when he was taking too long to respond because i knew that’s why he wanted me. all he wanted me for. he stopped being so nice to me. started barely texting. acting distant and not asking me questions or seeming to care about me or my life anymore.
fast forward again to the last time we saw each other. i had cried to him after he told me he doesn’t see us ever being exclusive and he just kept saying that he didn’t do anything wrong and was up front from the beginning (mind u i never accused him of doing anything wrong nor did i blame him for anything, i simply said that i was hurting because of the situation) and didn’t offer any comfort or kind words while i was sobbing to him.
fast forward for the last time (this is 4 months later) he tells me that he doesn’t think about women during his day in general. that he hyperfixates on the women he hooks up with and gets into situationships with for a few days to a few weeks. that he doesn’t care if i get with anyone else and genuinely hopes i find better. that he doesn’t care in general. then while i was staring at the camera wall and was about to cry, he said i looked like i wanted to fuck.
i feel like im valid for being upset and mad at him for that conversation. i would have never slept with him had i known he was only being nice and interested and seeet and caring because he was hyperfixating on me and tha that would only last for a few weeks, yet he continued seeing me for months knowing i had feelings, knowing i cared about him, and knowing i was getting hurt (he knew all of this because i explicitly told him).
i ended things a week after that. he threw everything in my face and told me that if i was hurting it was all on me not him. that i made my own choices. said that i can’t come to him with that shut because it has nothing to do w it h him.
tldr; i hate men.
hi! wondering what all this means. overall im thinking he's feeling in his emperor energy right now and will reach out when he feels ready but rn he's ina period of reflection and hanging out with friends/going out but not looking for something romantic righ tnow even though deep down he craves a meaningful connection. thanks!
hi! wondering if i could get some help on this. not sure if the emperor means he'll reach out when he feels ready or if he's firm in his decision? thankyou!
i miss him. we haven’t texted/spoken in a few months after i ended things when he didn’t want to commit and i was getting hurt from casual. thank u
we have been no contact for a few months. i miss him so much.
