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mera dimaag kharab hora💔 mere parivaar wle itne involved hain mere life decisions mein likee not even an exam is spared. neet mera iss saal ka acha ni gya tha itna toh everyone was very disappointed and ldayi hogyi thi boht. eventually they all gave up on me. those few days were so peaceful. I had time to explore other options, gauge my interests and try to figure out something on my own. I wasn't totally against the idea of doing pvt mbbs but I was being practical rather than just thinking of the so called money and respect attached with a doctor. but my parents and even my siblings think that is the only right field for me.

toh jbse reneet announce hua hai they have decided to take it as their group mission to make me get selected this time 😀 it was my second drop. they were very much involved throughout these years too but now they are saying.. that they weren't that much involved in past 2 yrs but now for reneet they are gonna fully focus on me😍 sunne ko hi taiyaar nhi hai kuch aur.. cuet hai mera abhi 19 ko. options mere saare khtm ho jayenge jbtk reneet hoga🥰 bekaar hai bhaiya.. now I understand why kids suic*de. not that thats the wisest decision for a kid to take but I very much sympathise & empathise with those kids. It takes a lot of mental courage to submit to choices that your family takes.. all because you are dependent on them for survival. like why does your kid's happiness not matter more than your own controlling nature or societal expectations? 💔

like even I have that much brainss to know even though I wanted to move on from neet but because it got cancelled and dobara hoga exam, now I have to refocus on neet and give my best. jo bhi ho saamne opportunity I know I have to do it whole heartedly but my family thinks I am my own enemy. why are they planning what should be done.. how should I study.. they haven't even given this exam🥀 one who has given this exam her whole 4 years including 11th 12th she wouldn't know whats good for her or not but her family would know.. yeah right🥀

I was gonna give cuet. finally moved on from neet. ab ye bkchodi honi thi. firse neet ka pdho🥲 merko ab cuet bhi nhi dene denge mere ghrwle😭🥀 they are so fking excited and hopeful. I am fking depressed because of this exam and they don't care🥰 rona dhona hogya tha pura but somehow I had managed to make my family lose hope from neet. ab ye hogya..🥀

papa mujhe strategies bhi btaana shuru krdiye. kehte.. ab tum apna dimaag mt lgaana. hum jaise btayenge bs wese hi pdhna ek mahina. abhi tk tum apne hi hisaab se pdh ri thi toh kuch nhi hua🥰☝️yea yea I'll go from 440 to 650 just by practising questions and papers everyday right?🥰 (this is what my fam thinks) didi bhi yhi kehri..mere sath discuss krke pdho. khud se krke dekh li hum plan bnwa denge 🥰✨

kaunsa paap kiya tha maine pichhle janam ki iss janam neet ke sath jawaani lutaani thi mujhe🧍‍♀️ now we don't even know the exact date. aimless pdhai is literally the worst😭 30-40-45 din maan maan ke pdhu ab🚶‍♀️

Hi guys.

I have passed class 12th from pcb stream. I am not getting a gmc seat this year and it was my second drop. I want to know a little bit more about doctor's lifestyle before getting into a private medical college and continuing in this field.

Its a long list😭🤌 please answer each point with patience and as much honesty as possible (you can even dm incase of privacy issues). I will be very very thankful if you answer all questions😭 I hope all your positive wishes come true✨ Thankyou for your time🙌

1. How does a normal day in your life look like?

2. Most exhausting and most enjoyable part of your work?

3. How stressful is your work?

4. What salary can an average person realistically expect after just MBBS?

5. Is PG almost compulsory nowadays? Is there an opportunity to grow even without giving NEET PG? like by becoming a medical officer.

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6. Is private MBBS financially worth it?

7. If you could restart at 18, would you choose this path again? if not, then why?

8. What do students misunderstand about this field?

9. What type of person should definitely NOT enter this field?

10. How should one figure out if MBBS is one's own dream or they have been influenced by their family & society for years that they started considering it their own dream?

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11. Do you get enough time for yourself, family& friends?

12. How many holidays/ free days can one expect in a year for trips/ relaxation?

13. How much sacrifice does this field actually require? Can one take out time for content creation along side? Is it considered unprofessional or are you stopped from practising because of it?

14. Can someone switch careers later? How flexible is this field? like if one wants to go for MBA after MBBS, is it wise or not wise to do that?

15. How exhausting are residency years? (MD/MS/DNB)

16. How much impact does AI have in this field?

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Regarding COLLEGE

17. What are some good private colleges to consider under 1cr? one with good patient load & clinical exposure.

18. What things to keep in mind during the college years?

Hi guys.

I have passed class 12th from pcb stream. I am not getting a gmc seat this year and it was my second drop. I want to know a little bit more about doctor's lifestyle before getting into a private medical college and continuing in this field.

Its a long list😭🤌 please answer each point with patience and as much honesty as possible (you can even dm incase of privacy issues). I will be very very thankful if you answer all questions😭 I hope all your positive wishes come true✨ Thankyou for your time🙌

1. How does a normal day in your life look like?

2. Most exhausting and most enjoyable part of your work?

3. How stressful is your work?

4. What salary can an average person realistically expect after just MBBS?

5. Is PG almost compulsory nowadays? Is there an opportunity to grow even without giving NEET PG? like by becoming a medical officer.

.

.

6. Is private MBBS financially worth it?

7. If you could restart at 18, would you choose this path again? if not, then why?

8. What do students misunderstand about this field?

9. What type of person should definitely NOT enter this field?

10. How should one figure out if MBBS is one's own dream or they have been influenced by their family & society for years that they started considering it their own dream?

.

.

11. Do you get enough time for yourself, family& friends?

12. How many holidays/ free days can one expect in a year for trips/ relaxation?

13. How much sacrifice does this field actually require? Can one take out time for content creation along side? Is it considered unprofessional or are you stopped from practising because of it?

14. Can someone switch careers later? How flexible is this field? like if one wants to go for MBA after MBBS, is it wise or not wise to do that?

15. How exhausting are residency years? (MD/MS/DNB)

16. How much impact does AI have in this field?

.

.

Regarding COLLEGE

17. What are some good private colleges to consider under 1cr? one with good patient load & clinical exposure.

18. What things to keep in mind during the college years?

Hi guys!

I have passed class 12th from pcb stream. I am kinda interested in creative field like b. design so have few queries regarding it. I want to understand what I am stepping into in a bit more detail than just a google search or a vlog.

Assuming you must be a student at a design college or must be a professional in this field, you can guide me better about it.

Its a long list😭🤌 please answer each point with patience and as much honesty as possible (you can even dm incase of privacy issues). I will be very very thankful if you answer all questions😭 I hope all your positive wishes come true✨ Thankyou for your time🙌

1. How does a normal day in your life look like?

2. Most exhausting and most enjoyable part of your work?

3. How long does it take to earn decent? What salary can an average person realistically expect?

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.

4. Is the field too saturated? how much competitive?

5. If you could restart at 18, would you choose this path again? if not, then why?

6. What type of person should definitely NOT enter this field?

7. Are the skills, that are required here, learnable by an average student or is it something that has to come naturally?

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8. Do you get enough time for yourself, family& friends?

9. Can someone switch careers later? How flexible is this field?

10. Is higher education, if any, a must? Can one get a job directly after the degree? What are possible job opportunities afterwards?

11. How much impact does AI have in this field?

.

.

Regarding COLLEGE

12. What is the placement percentage in your college? What is the median package?

13. Are there enough internship opportunities?

14. Enough industry connection? Alumni network?

15. What to keep in mind during college years?

Hi guys!

I have passed class 12th from pcb stream. I am kinda interested in creative field like b. design so have few queries regarding it. I want to understand what I am stepping into in a bit more detail than just a google search or a vlog.

Assuming you must be a student at a design college or must be a professional in this field, you can guide me better about it.

Its a long list😭🤌 please answer each point with patience and as much honesty as possible (you can even dm incase of privacy issues). I will be very very thankful if you answer all questions😭 I hope all your positive wishes come true✨ Thankyou for your time🙌

1. How does a normal day in your life look like?

2. Most exhausting and most enjoyable part of your work?

3. How long does it take to earn decent? What salary can an average person realistically expect?

.

.

4. Is the field too saturated? how much competitive?

5. If you could restart at 18, would you choose this path again? if not, then why?

6. What type of person should definitely NOT enter this field?

7. Are the skills, that are required here, learnable by an average student or is it something that has to come naturally?

.

.

8. Do you get enough time for yourself, family& friends?

9. Can someone switch careers later? How flexible is this field?

10. Is higher education, if any, a must? Can one get a job directly after the degree? What are possible job opportunities afterwards?

11. How much impact does AI have in this field?

.

.

Regarding COLLEGE

12. What is the placement percentage in your college? What is the median package?

13. Are there enough internship opportunities?

14. Enough industry connection? Alumni network?

15. What to keep in mind during college years?

Hi guys!

I have passed class 12th from pcb stream. I am kinda interested in creative field like b. design so have few queries regarding it. I want to understand what I am stepping into in a bit more detail than just a google search or a vlog.

Assuming you must be a student at a design college or must be a professional in this field, you can guide me better about it.

Its a long list😭🤌 please answer each point with patience and as much honesty as possible (you can even dm incase of privacy issues). I will be very very thankful if you answer all questions😭 I hope all your positive wishes come true✨ Thankyou for your time🙌

1. How does a normal day in your life look like?

2. Most exhausting and most enjoyable part of your work?

3. How stressful is your work?

4. How long does it take to earn decent? What salary can an average person realistically expect?

5. Is growth slow or fast?

.

.

6. Is the field too saturated?

7. If you could restart at 18, would you choose this path again? if not, then why?

8. What do students misunderstand about this field?

9. What type of person should definitely NOT enter this field?

10. Are the skills, that are required here, learnable by an average student or is it something that has to come naturally?

.

.

11. Do you get enough time for yourself, family& friends?

12. How many holidays/ free days can one expect in a year for trips?

13. How common is burnout? Can this career be sustained long term?

14. Can someone switch careers later? How flexible is this field?

15. Is higher education, if any, a must? Can one get a job directly after the degree?

16. How much impact does AI have in this field?

.

.

Regarding COLLEGE

17. What is the placement percentage in your college? What is the median package?

18. Are there enough internship opportunities?

19. Enough industry connection? Alumni network?

20. What things to keep in mind during the college years?

21. some good colleges recommendations?

neet toh hua nhi.. ab cuet ka pdhte time itna bura feel ho rha🫠 ki ye toh mera level tha hi nhi. isse toh kaafi jyda aage aagyi thi mai. kitne tough tough sawaal dekhe the. pr shyd neet ke liye jo required tha wo mere me nhi tha.. aur neet hi nhi hua toh usse jyda level ka mere se iat ya kuch mere se kahan hi hoga ab itne km time me🥀

ex neet asp here. so I have studied it before🥀

bhai I can't live like this anymore mtlb do min mai apne kamre me room lock krke baith jau koi door pe knock krne lgta hai chillane lgta hai kholo kholo jese mai andr baith ke drugs krri hu. kuch inappropriate krri hu😭 mai bs leti hui thi bed pe. usme bhii. itna bhi trust nhi hai bhai inko. trust issues hai ya control issue idk😭 then I open the door aur fir mummy aagyin andar bolne lgi bs khol ke rha kro for no reason🥲

fir papa bhi aagye. kehne lge room me pdi rehti ho normal bno thoda park jao dadi ke sath. and not like a suggestion because wo mujhe dukhi dekh rhe hai and help krna chahte hai😭 nhi. they instruct me ki ye ye kro. park jao jb ye chahe. subah uth jao itne bje. itne bje so jao. machine hun kya mai😭 exam ke baad toh thode der chhor dete ki beta krlo jo krna hai hum kuch nhi bolenge🥲

fir mai puchti hun ki room thode der lock krne me kya issue hai? toh bolte kyun krna hai lock. esa kya kr rhi ho. hum log kahan aate hai tumhare kmre me. bs dekh ke chle jaate😭 mind you, I have no suicidal tendency since childhood so idk what are they even scared of🥀

then they started emotional blackmailing😭 ki theeke humara baat krna itna chubhta hai toh hum nhi krenge tum hi krna fir humse aake. arey bhai baat krna hai toh normally kriye na. ya toh career ka sawaal krne lg jayenge ya mujhe apna routine sudhaarne ke liye bolne lg jayenge. ye kro wo kro normal bacho jesa bno😭

pdhte pdhte abnormal hogyi toh mai kya kruu😭🥀 ho jaungi bhai theek. merko apne pace me toh hone do. exam ke 1 din baad se hi chain nhi mila mujhe ki kuch enjoy kru relax kru🥲 fir yhi cheez unko btau toh they act like they are so surprised that I am not able to enjoy😭💔

I read the info bulletin but couldn't really understand what happens when a student chooses a course of different stream..

like for eg. if I have chosen subjects like pcb english GAT. and there is another person of arts stream with 3 humanities subjects and eng GAT (idk exactly which subjects are there) and they are competing for an arts degree. for eg. ba english honors in any uni. abhi ke liye lets take a DU clg like ramjas/kmc (idk kis clg me kaunsa course available hai. I have to research more. bear with me)

then hum dono log ke marks kaise calculate honge? kaunse subjects ke marks consider honge and add honge for final marks? out of how much? (jitna ik I think bsc ke liye total is 750. and baaki ke liye 1000. I'm not sure) so who is going to be preferred? jiske hr 5 subjects me jyda marks ho ya only in 3 domain subjects? ya kuch percentage of marks ko leke calculation hota?

also can I apply for multiple universities? like du ke ramjas se ek particular course. then second choice me UOH ka psychology course. then third choice bhu ka kuch. can I do it like that? or is there a limit?

I read the info bulletin but couldn't really understand what happens when a student chooses a course of different stream..

like for eg. if I have chosen subjects like pcb english GAT. and there is another person of arts stream with 3 humanities subjects and eng GAT (idk exactly which subjects are there) and they are competing for an arts degree. for eg. ba english honors in any uni. abhi ke liye lets take a DU clg like ramjas/kmc (idk kis clg me kaunsa course available hai. I have to research more. bear with me)

then hum dono log ke marks kaise calculate honge? kaunse subjects ke marks consider honge and add honge for final marks? out of how much? (jitna ik I think bsc ke liye total is 750. and baaki ke liye 1000. I'm not sure) so who is going to be preferred? jiske hr 5 subjects me jyda marks ho ya only in 3 domain subjects? ya kuch percentage of marks ko leke calculation hota?

also can I apply for multiple universities? like du ke ramjas se ek particular course. then second choice me UOH ka psychology course. then third choice bhu ka kuch. can I do it like that? or is there a limit?

myquals : 91% in 12th, neet second drop 445

I read the info bulletin but couldn't really understand what happens when a student chooses a course of different stream..

like for eg. if I have chosen subjects like pcb english GAT. and there is another person of arts stream with 3 humanities subjects and eng GAT (idk exactly which subjects are there) and they are competing for an arts degree. for eg. ba english honors in any uni. abhi ke liye lets take a DU clg like ramjas/kmc (idk kis clg me kaunsa course available hai. I have to research more. bear with me)

then hum dono log ke marks kaise calculate honge? kaunse subjects ke marks consider honge and add honge for final marks? out of how much? (jitna ik I think bsc ke liye total is 750. and baaki ke liye 1000. I'm not sure) so who is going to be preferred? jiske hr 5 subjects me jyda marks ho ya only in 3 domain subjects? ya kuch percentage of marks ko leke calculation hota?

also can I apply for multiple universities? like du ke ramjas se ek particular course. then second choice me UOH ka psychology course. then third choice bhu ka kuch. can I do it like that? or is there a limit?

I read the info bulletin but couldn't really understand what happens when a student chooses a course of different stream..

like for eg. if I have chosen subjects like pcb english GAT. and there is another person of arts stream with 3 humanities subjects and eng GAT (idk exactly which subjects are there) and they are competing for an arts degree. for eg. ba english honors in any uni. abhi ke liye lets take a DU clg like ramjas/kmc (idk kis clg me kaunsa course available hai. I have to research more. bear with me) then hum dono log ke marks kaise calculate honge? kaunse subjects ke marks consider honge and add honge for final marks? out of how much? (jitna ik I think bsc ke liye total is 750. and baaki ke liye 1000. I'm not sure) so who is going to be preferred? jiske hr 5 subjects me jyda marks ho ya only in 3 domain subjects? ya kuch percentage of marks ko leke calculation hota?

also can I apply for multiple universities? like du ke ramjas se ek particular course. then second choice me UOH ka psychology course. then third choice bhu ka kuch. can I do it like that? or is there a limit?

today I was like marks bta hi deti hu. 442 aya. last year I got 390. ik ik its same only. considering the paper difficulty got lesser. par mera mann ab khtm hogya hai neet se. mbbs se. mujhe pta hai maine boht galti ki hai prep me but sb cheez mai parents se share bhi nhi kar sakti. they consider themselves just too superior and rigid to even become a little open and supportive towards me. mai koi expectations nhi rkhi thi ki they would sympathise with me on me sharing this kind of marks.. maine accept kiya tha still.. ki dukhi toh honge hi.. but when I told them. mummy toh kuch nhi boli.

papa ese shocked hogye. wo merko bs shock hoke dekhte ekdum disbelief me. bolte ki itna kharab number kese aa skta hai. pure saal bhar kya pdha tumne? raat bhar jagti thi lekin pdhti nhi thi na. mann nhi tha andar se mbbs ka toh hume bta deti na. areyyy lekin mai kaise bta deti. koi sunta tab na. mai apne mann ki hi baat bolu toh sbko ese chubh jaati hai jese mai unko gaali de rhi hu. arey meri life hai mai agar galat decision le bhi lu toh kyaa. aapko kyu meri life perfect krni. aapko mere se jyda bura kyu feel ho rha. bura toh mujhe lg rha betrayed toh mujhe feel ho rha ki aap log meri baat nhi sune pehle. 10th se mai ye cheez kehti aa rhi hu. lekin tab mujhe koi seriously nhi leta tha.

agar pdhai me achi hun.. aagye mere ek baar 630+ neet mein bhi toh iska mtlb ye thodi hai ki mai hr baar neet crack kr hi lungi ya mai mbbs hi kru. nhi psnd mujhe doctor ki hectic lifestyle yr. and sbko radio derma nhi milta. gmc milta toh bhi baat thi. ki pg me apne psnd ka branch le lu. abhi nhi nikal rha na. ab 1 cr mai ug ki degree me lgau? fir top branch jo ki comparatively chill hai.. wo bhi kya hi chill hai usme bhi boht kaam krna pdta.. still comp chill hai. usko lene ke liye dobara 1-2 cr lgau? mil payega itna return mujhe? pta nhi kitne saal lg jayenge utna kamaane me. already itna kharcha hogya hai coachings pe. forms fill krne me. mai nhi jhel skti itna financial burden yr. aur aisa nhi hai ki maine try nhi kiya. thi boht si cheeze jo raaste me ayi despite all that I tried my best. pr nhi ho paya yrr. I failed.

papa ab bilkul hi give up krdiye mere pe. he thinks mai koi gadhe clg me jaungi. direct nhi bolte ki he is disappointed in me. he will say it indirectly.. ki thike jo karna hai kro hum kaha mana kr rhe. gadhe se clg me jaake bhi log kuch kr hi lete hai.. thike ab mai jyda expect bhi nhi krti unse ki wo smjhe wo apni soch bdle. itne saalo se wo whi sochte aa rhe nhi bdlega itni jldi. par mere pe kyun thopna? its not like I am dumb but I am made to feel so dumb. ki jese dono boards me ache marks the school me top krti thi aur abhi ye exam nhi crack hua toh mai boht hi gadhi hogyi. galtiyan hogyi yr prep me. mehnat se mai nhi bhaag rhi. I will do my best wherever I go but atleast aap support toh kro khushi khushi. 🥲

ab mujhe ye bola gya hai ki lelo time tum.. wo bhi sirf ek hafta . aur soch ke btao kya karna hai. fir hum discuss krenge. ye bhi nhi hai ki mai jo bolu wo krne hi denge. jo bolungi uspe sochenge. pura mai 10 saal ka plan banau aage ka tbhi maanenge wo log. abhi mai kya btau yr ki mujhe konsi job krni hai. who decides ek ek step. or maybe they do. I am only the one with indecisive asf brain. aadat hi nhi hai apne life ke decision lene ka. aur ab mujhe dhakel de rhe sb ki jao tum akele soch ke btao tumhe kya krna hai. he also doesn't think a third person can advise anything good abt career. bs parents hi sahi bta skte hai bacche ke liye. parents toh bache ki aadhi life jaante tak nhi hai.. kya sahi decide krenge uske liye🫠

ache parents banna chahte hain hr koi lekin nhi bn paate. I love them to the core but they make things so hard when they are so rigid like that and a hypocrite and a narcissist. they are the perfect example of helicopter parenting. par who cares. who caresss. no one wants external help na. no one will go and seek help and work on themselves by professional help. therapist psychologist. heck I even wanna go and see a psychiatrist for myself. but they think they know the best na..

I had planned to revise ioc and human physio and some bio pyqs aur mai tab se so rahi 😭😭😭 gone casee bruhhhhh

what is the probability of gaining marks than losing it??? kitna question tukka maarna chahiye? & kaise? like sab ques me ek hi option ya koi pattern??

I just want to cross 350-380 marks😔💔 I can get like 295-300 in bio. Ioc done hai except p block. physical chem me only electro, kinetics & atomic structure done. I plan on finishing solutions as well. oc me biomolecules, iupac, isomerism (except optical isomerism) but iupac,isomerism mere se revise nahi ho payegi ab🥀🥀 physics me modern physics kiya hai but rev nhi hua abhi tk🥀

so omr ke physics section me agar papa dekhenge kuch fill hi nahi kiya toh I won't be able to answer him😔 can I do tukka in that? & also in oc and maybe few ques in pc so that I get 350+ after negative markings...

I am really in a desperate position rn 😭 please be kind😔

parents/guardian ka jo emergency contact details maanga tha registration ke time uspe kuch jaata hai kya? omr ya full result page ya subject wise marks??

main number and email is mine.

anyone with pcb subjects going from neet to literally any other course except anything related to medical... what are you planning to choose? &how will you convince your parents??