u/InternationalJob4839

refund to a card # that doesn’t belong to me?

hi all, i recently purchased an item in store through apple pay, and had to return it to another store. There were no issues but as i was looking through my receipts both the original purchase and refund were under a card i don’t recognize… the money came out of my account, but as of right now the refund still hasn’t been deposited.

is this what always happens and im just finding out, or should i be concerned and contact customer support?

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u/InternationalJob4839 — 8 hours ago

thoughts on karma body conditioner?

I have always loved karma and I bought the body lotion today and I’m absolutely in love with its power and projection!

My question is: are people bothered by its projection and scent? Or can I feel confident that i’m not bothering anyone when walking around wearing this lotion?

edit: it’s the body lotion i just have a tendency to call them all body conditioners, sorry for the confusion!

AIO friend is hating on everything and i want to cut her off

these are the most recent texts where she just left me on read. in the first one she’s talking about her lover’s girlfriend.

for a few months now my friend has been hating on everything and everyone and i can't stand it. it started with her work friends, then her lover's girlfriend, and now our country/city.

she's always starting fights in group chats and cancelling plans last minute, only to go out with the people she complains about. when we do go out she's always making fun of me to others, and when we're alone every attempt at conversation turns into a competition (weekly hours, raises, bonuses, vacation time, etc). i can't help but feel like she's also complaining about me to someone else. her negativity ruins my mood and it's never ending. i don't want to have to deal with that, am i overreacting, should i try to be more supportive of issues im unaware of?

this all feels so childish it's almost like her soul got switched with someone else's. please help!

edit: i don’t mean to offend anyone from the us, i was just feeling a bit patriotic after her comments 😅

edit 2: by lover i mean she’s the side chick, which also bothers me, because she has always been against cheating in the 8 years i’ve known her.

edit 3: i brought this to reddit after she asked me if i had a problem, because obviously i do but i didn’t know if i was right to. i had attempted to subtly bring up her behaviour in previous meetings but it wasn’t successful. i’m here to see if others think it’s fair for me to tell her that i do in fact have a problem or if im overreacting and should stick this one out and save me the trouble of another argument.

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i (21F and queer) am spending the summer in vancouver by myself. i wanted to know if it would be okay/fun/safe to go out to some queer/lesbian bars by myself!

if anyone has recent experiences id love to hear about the vibes (music crowd) as well as the company (friendly or more)

thanks yall!!

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u/InternationalJob4839 — 12 days ago
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now that summer‘s in the air i’ve been wanting to join random activity clubs to meet other women, but i can’t find anything online. does anyone know of any sort of book, puzzle, board game, or any other kind of activity club welcoming new members?

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u/InternationalJob4839 — 15 days ago

recently realized that my top choices are either dead or getting there, so I need to look at other options...

which fields are becoming increasingly profitable and will continue to welcome new lawyers in the future?

thanks!

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u/InternationalJob4839 — 16 days ago