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I (27M) unfortunately have recently encountered ED for the first time in my life. I have been with my fiancé (27F) for 9 years, and we have had an excellent sex life the entire relationship. We have always said we never left the honeymoon phase almost a decade later. I have never had an ED issue in my entire life.

Well about 4 weeks ago, we were engaging in sex, and I had a work issue that has been gnawing at me. The thought of this work issue caused me to lose my erection. Now, for the past 4 weeks, I have lost it several more times because I have been thinking “don’t lose it, don’t lose it” instead of enjoying my time. I never gave two thoughts about trying to “keep it up” until now, and now it feels like I am a knight who has had his armor shattered. I do not masturbate.

I believe this issue is purely psychological, because I am physically capable of getting an erection. My fiancé is totally cool, and doesn’t seem bothered by this, she just tells me I need to relax.

Has anyone else dealt with this, and if so, do you have any tips or advice for me to get back on track?

Thank you.

I (27M) unfortunately have recently encountered ED for the first time in my life. I have been with my fiancé (27F) for 9 years, and we have had an excellent sex life the entire relationship. We have always said we never left the honeymoon phase almost a decade later. I have never had an ED issue in my entire life.

Well about 4 weeks ago, we were engaging in sex, and I had a work issue that has been gnawing at me. The thought of this work issue caused me to lose my erection. Now, for the past 4 weeks, I have lost it several more times because I have been thinking “don’t lose it, don’t lose it” instead of enjoying my time. I never gave two thoughts about trying to “keep it up” until now, and now it feels like I am a knight who has had his armor shattered. I do not masturbate.

I believe this issue is purely psychological, because I am physically capable of getting an erection. My fiancé is totally cool, and doesn’t seem bothered by this, she just tells me I need to relax.

Has anyone else dealt with this, and if so, do you have any tips or advice for me to get back on track?

Thank you.

I (27M) unfortunately have recently encountered ED for the first time in my life. I have been with my fiancé (27F) for 9 years, and we have had an excellent sex life the entire relationship. We have always said we never left the honeymoon phase almost a decade later. I have never had an ED issue in my entire life.

Well about 4 weeks ago, we were engaging in sex, and I had a work issue that has been gnawing at me. The thought of this work issue caused me to lose my erection. Now, for the past 4 weeks, I have lost it several more times because I have been thinking “don’t lose it, don’t lose it” instead of enjoying my time. I never gave two thoughts about trying to “keep it up” until now, and now it feels like I am a knight who has had his armor shattered. I do not masturbate.

I believe this issue is purely psychological, because I am physically capable of getting an erection. My fiancé is totally cool, and doesn’t seem bothered by this, she just tells me I need to relax.

Has anyone else dealt with this, and if so, do you have any tips or advice for me to get back on track?

Thank you.

I (27M) unfortunately have recently encountered ED for the first time in my life. I have been with my fiancé (27F) for 9 years, and we have had an excellent sex life the entire relationship. We have always said we never left the honeymoon phase almost a decade later. I have never had an ED issue in my entire life.

Well about 4 weeks ago, we were engaging in sex, and I had a work issue that has been gnawing at me. The thought of this work issue caused me to lose my erection. Now, for the past 4 weeks, I have lost it several more times because I have been thinking “don’t lose it, don’t lose it” instead of enjoying my time. I never gave two thoughts about trying to “keep it up” until now, and now it feels like I am a knight who has had his armor shattered. I do not masturbate.

I believe this issue is purely psychological, because I am physically capable of getting an erection. My fiancé is totally cool, and doesn’t seem bothered by this, she just tells me I need to relax.

Has anyone else dealt with this, and if so, do you have any tips or advice for me to get back on track?

Thank you.