How do you actually enjoy your own party when you are the one cooking?
I have a big milestone birthday coming up for my spouse and I am hit with the same dread I get every year. I spend weeks planning the menu, hours prepping, and then the entire night stuck in the kitchen over a hot stove or plating appetizers while everyone else is in the living room laughing. By the time I sit down to eat, I am exhausted and the vibe feels off. Does anyone have a system for being a present host without serving just cold deli platters or lukewarm pizza? I want a high-end feel without the high-end STRESS of managing every burner and timer myself.