Just broke up with ex and it feels like i'm grieving him. I'm only 19 but I feel like i'll never find someone who would love me like he did (silly i know). i don't have hope ill find someone even tho im literally going to college in the fall. advice or stories are appreciated!!!
All experiences (good and bad) welcome! Would love to know how it's been seeking out relationships. I will be starting UT in the fall and have not had much experience with boyfriends but would like to in a new environment.
My ex and I, who had sex regularly, recently broke up because he became emotionally inconsistent due to mental health problems he had.
I talked to a fellow christian friend about it and she told me our relationship didn't work out because we had sex and God took him away from me. Is this true? I know many people who have had sex before marriage and have had amazing relationships
My most recent ex and I had sex regularly, but we broke up because he was going. through a lot and became very emotionally consistent.
my friend told me that the reason why we ended is because God took him away from me because we had sex and that me missing him as much as i do is because i had sex with him. is this true? like obviously having sex with someone creates a deeper connection but...
Hi everyone! not sure if someone has ever dealt with this but giving it a shot, wondering if I was used by my ex boyfriend to pretend he wasn't actually gay, or if he was bisexual.
i dated a guy for a couple months who i genuinely really loved. he seemed to check off all my boxes and was very affectionate, thoughtful. we were fine until the end when he started dealing with mental health issues and i ended things. i NEVER saw anything in him that screamed "gay" to me, he was very masculine, was clearly attracted to me and always seemed to enjoy physical things w/ me. alot of people seemed to mention they thought he liked ME more than i liked him. he never made me feel like he wasn't attracted to me, wanted to have sex all the time, and he had dated girls in the past. the only thing that made me even CONSIDER he could maybe be gay is that when we had sex, he would take forever to finish, or we would sometimes give up because it took too long and i started to get tired. he told me he just took awhile (not sure about the his because i haven't been with enough guys to know if this is true)
anyways - after we broke up, he told my friend he was gay, or at least "was attracted to men but didn't like that he was". i didn't know abt that at the time and we rekindled things and hooked up again.
we got into a fight again (went no contact) and he then had sex with a guy i know, after just about 2 weeks of telling me he saw himself marrying me and wanted to work things out in the future.
Was he actually ever attracted to me/love me? Or did he use me to stay closeted? i'm feeling like he never felt the same about me.
Hi everyone! Wanted to ask here bc i feel like id get the most honest response .
i dated a guy for a couple months who i genuinely really loved. he seemed to check off all my boxes and was very affectionate, thoughtful. he was so kind and loving that people would always compliment our relationship and i felt the best id ever felt in a long time. we were fine until the end when he started dealing with mental health issues and i ended things. i NEVER saw anything in him that screamed "gay" to me, he was very masculine, was clearly attracted to me and always seemed to enjoy physical things w/ me. he would always want to have sex or be physical. people would even mention how they thought HE liked me more than i liked him. he never made me feel like he wasn't attracted to me and he had dated girls in the past. the only thing that made me even CONSIDER he could maybe be gay is that when we had sex, he would take forever to finish, or we would sometimes give up because it took too long and i started to get tired. he told me he just took awhile (not sure about the his because i haven't been with enough guys to know if this is true)
anyways - after we broke up, he told my friend he was gay, or at least "was attracted to men but didn't like that he was". i didn't know abt that at the time and we rekindled things and hooked up again.
we got into a fight again (went no contact) and he then had sex with a guy i know, after just about 2 weeks of telling me he saw himself marrying me and wanted to work things out in the future.
Was he actually ever attracted to me? Or did he use me to lie to himself about being gay? is he bisexual maybe? if he didn't, why did he fight to be with me and do all these things for me?
I always wanted to reach out and ask if it was all real but don't feel it's my place. he's already going through a lot right now