u/Ill-Mountain-8612

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I only noticed it a few moments ago, it’s a weird bold dry spot, with some dry skin? My cat seems to be pretty chill and is acting his usual normal self.

Anyone have an idea what it is? Anything I can do to help him? the spot seems sensitive when i touched it

u/Ill-Mountain-8612 — 9 days ago

I honestly don’t know why I’m struggling so much, I thought I’d be coping a lot better but I find myself struggling.

It has been over a week since I last heard from him.

Our last conversation is him opening up about mentally struggling. We had been talking every day since we knew each other; but then there was a point in our conversation where he responded after two days.

This was after him opening up about not feeling like himself anymore, and struggling with it, and how it’s affecting all aspects of his life right now. He was so consistent before but yeah because of mental health struggles, I haven’t heard from him.

His last message was him apologizing for not replying sooner, and that he is trying to get his head right. He also explained his replying will be off until he “feels like himself again”.

My response was that I understood and that I am sorry he is going through this and sorry that he has been feeling this way and also gave him props for communicating it well with me, despite struggling mentally.

I was left on seen since then and it has been 8 days. How can I cope and accept that I’ve been ghosted and accept it for what it is?

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u/Ill-Mountain-8612 — 16 days ago

I honestly don’t know why I’m struggling so much, I thought I’d be coping a lot better but I find myself struggling.

It has been over a week since I last heard from him.

Our last conversation is him opening up about mentally struggling. We had been talking every day since we knew each other; but then there was a point in our conversation where he responded after two days.

This was after him opening up about not feeling like himself anymore, and struggling with it, and how it’s affecting all aspects of his life right now. He was so consistent before but yeah because of mental health struggles, I haven’t heard from him.

His last message was him apologizing for not replying sooner, and that he is trying to get his head right. He also explained his replying will be off until he “feels like himself again”.

My response was that I understood and that I am sorry he is going through this and sorry that he has been feeling this way and also gave him props for communicating it well with me, despite struggling mentally.

I was left on seen since then and it has been 8 days. How can I cope and accept that I’ve been ghosted and accept it for what it is?

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u/Ill-Mountain-8612 — 16 days ago

I honestly don’t know why I’m struggling so much, I thought I’d be coping a lot better but I find myself struggling.

It has been over a week since I last heard from him.

Our last conversation is him opening up about mentally struggling. We had been talking every day since we knew each other; but then there was a point in our conversation where he responded after two days.

This was after him opening up about not feeling like himself anymore, and struggling with it, and how it’s affecting all aspects of his life right now. He was so consistent before but yeah because of mental health struggles, I haven’t heard from him.

His last message was him apologizing for not replying sooner, and that he is trying to get his head right. He also explained his replying will be off until he “feels like himself again”.

My response was that I understood and that I am sorry he is going through this and sorry that he has been feeling this way and also gave him props for communicating it well with me, despite struggling mentally.

I was left on seen since then and it has been 8 days. How can I cope and accept that I’ve been ghosted and accept it for what it is?

It’s a bit hard for me to do so at the moment if I’m being honest.

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u/Ill-Mountain-8612 — 16 days ago

A guy I’m talking to was consistent but not constant. It takes him a while to respond because of juggling both being a student studying for a master’s degree and working night shifts plus being an athlete. But he still manages to message me every day and check in and see how i’m doing.

So then he opened up about mentally struggling and not feeling like himself and it took him two days to respond to my response about it.

His last message was apologizing for not replying sooner and communicating that he is trying to get his head right, and that he will be off with replying, until he feels like himself again.

It’s been a week now since then. Is it safe to say I’ve been ghosted? Instead of waiting and holding out hope that he might actually message me again? :(

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u/Ill-Mountain-8612 — 17 days ago