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Hi I (m18) have been dating my boyfriend (tm18) for about a year now and I have known he's poly the whole time but we agreed to not talk about it very much as I didn't quite get it at the time but now I've accepted and am comfortable with him dating another man(tm) but recently he's been asking me to get to know the other boyfriend and I don't know how to go about it and any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated

Hi I (m18) have been dating my boyfriend (tm18) for about a year now and I have known he's poly the whole time but we agreed to not talk about it very much as I didn't quite get it at the time but now I've accepted and am comfortable with him dating another man(tm) but recently he's been asking me to get to know the other boyfriend and I don't know how to go about it and any advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated

So Ive been dating my partner for just about a year and he hasn't started testosterone yet but is wanting to and it makes me nervous. Like I fully support him but he has heart problems and mood swings which from what I've read testosterone can worsen and that worries me, plus I want kids someday and he's open to it but I've heard long-term testosterone therapy can make trans men infertile. I wanna talk to him about my concerns but I don't want to sound like an asshole so any tips on what to do would be amazing.