u/IcE_Cuber

I've been dating a girl (same age) one year ago. We matched on Tinder, and I instantly offered to meet her without those long, exhausting chats, and she agreed. Our date was really good and long; we walked a lot and talked about many things. Everything was smooth and organic. Before saying goodbye, she said to write to her if I wanted to.

The second day, she wrote first; the second time, I did. We chatted a bit like that until our next date, which I offered. It was very good, and we felt chemistry. At the end of the date, she complained a bit that she had to write first (at first she wrote more times, but I was also initiative and offered to meet).

She wrote after the second date, then I did. However, after some time, only I was initiative, and she didn't write first anymore. I offered to meet her anyway, and she offered to drive me with her car to nature and go for a walk.

That last time when we met was not that exciting, and when she drove me near my home, she didn't hug me like previous times. After the last meeting, we didn't chat with each other for several days. I was not sure if she lost interest in me or wanted me to be more initiative.

One day, I wrote to her that it was a pleasure to meet her and asked if she was just waiting for an excuse to end this. She wrote no and that she was waiting for me to write first. I asked why, and she wrote that MEN have to write first. So it just ended like that.

However, several days ago, I was going to the shop, and she just drove with her car right in front of me in the parking lot. She even stopped for a second and looked at me like at a ghost, and me either.

I still think she was really cool and cute, and I am not sure if it was miscommunication or if she just lost interest in me, and that's it. We were chatting only on Tinder, so I only know her full name, and I could write to her only on Messenger.

Would it be a very bad idea and cringe to write after one year? Also, we have no mutual friends or mutual acquaintances, so if I would be ignored or she would say me to get lost, it would be just on me. No one in my circle would not know about awkward situation.

I've been dating a girl (same age) one year ago. We matched on Tinder, and I instantly offered to meet her without those long, exhausting chats, and she agreed. Our date was really good and long; we walked a lot and talked about many things. Everything was smooth and organic. Before saying goodbye, she said to write to her if I wanted to.

The second day, she wrote first; the second time, I did. We chatted a bit like that until our next date, which I offered. It was very good, and we felt chemistry. At the end of the date, she complained a bit that she had to write first (at first she wrote more times, but I was also initiative and offered to meet).

She wrote after the second date, then I did. However, after some time, only I was initiative, and she didn't write first anymore. I offered to meet her anyway, and she offered to drive me with her car to nature and go for a walk.

That last time when we met was not that exciting, and when she drove me near my home, she didn't hug me like previous times. After the last meeting, we didn't chat with each other for several days. I was not sure if she lost interest in me or wanted me to be more initiative.

One day, I wrote to her that it was a pleasure to meet her and asked if she was just waiting for an excuse to end this. She wrote no and that she was waiting for me to write first. I asked why, and she wrote that MEN have to write first. So it just ended like that.

However, several days ago, I was going to the shop, and she just drove with her car right in front of me in the parking lot. She even stopped for a second and looked at me like at a ghost, and me either.

I still think she was really cool and cute, and I am not sure if it was miscommunication or if she just lost interest in me, and that's it. We were chatting only on Tinder, so I only know her full name, and I could write to her only on Messenger.

Would it be a very bad idea and cringe to write after one year? Also, we have no mutual friends or mutual acquaintances, so if I would be ignored or she would say me to get lost, it would be just on me. No one in my circle would not know about awkward situation.