u/Greedy_Food_1538

I’m not sure if what I’m doing is right but I broke no contact after 13 days since the break up and the reason is because I have an important exam coming up next week (I absolutely cannot study since the break up), and he has to finish his thesis this week. I know very well that I’ll study so much better if I hop on a call with him and study with him. (We’re ldr)

So I did what I had to do. I broke no contact even if I feel that I’d be going back to zero. I’m afraid of failing my exams because this is a very important exam. He agreed to it and said he might also be much more productive if he study with me.

I feel bad for doing this because I feel like I’m doing myself a disservice. That I’m just hurting myself. However, I need someone to tell me the truth of how you guys are seeing this. In my POV, I really need this because if I fail my exam, I’m afraid of going even further downhill.

Is this okay? Is what I’m doing okay? I’m afraid to be wrong. Please help. Any opinion or advice or tips or how I can handle the study call better will do.

So I deactivated my instagram, facebook, twitter and block my ex on tiktok so I at least have one media I can consume, however, tiktok is making me ruminate by the contents its showing me. I want to maintain this thing for like a month because I wanna be out of his sight for a month, and so I have 20 days left before going back to social media. The days are getting harder.

I need to focus on studying because I have important finals next week, but I can't function, the heaviness is getting in the way. If I delete tiktok, I'm not sure what distractions I can do when I feel too much.

Honestly, I don't know what to do. This is both a rant and a seeking for advice. Speak some sense into me. I need to lock in.

In your opinion, is it okay to pray for your ex to come back in your life? Of course with “let your will be done” still in it. But like the bible said, “whatever you ask in prayer believed that you have received it and it will be yours” and I’m not sure still if it’s right to keep praying for my ex and me to be the one for each other in the end.

What are your thoughts about this?

I’m experiencing a great amount of grief right now and it’s so painful that I’m afraid I will do things to myself. I don’t see anything else but really unaliving myself. I want to survive. I really want to get over this but right now there’s like a big hole in my chest that I want to stop feeling.

need someone to keep my boring life interesting. gusto ko yung unhinged talaga. nasanay ako sa weird views ng mga taong nakakausap ko so I keep looking for people na weird din. I wanna know more of these people lmao. hmu!! exam season so need din maybe study buddy!

I just went through a break up with my almost 4 year boyfriend. I read the bible as much as I can, there I really find comfort. I just want to find additional Christian books that I can read.

I really feel let down. I wasn’t chosen in the relationship and he gave me up. There wasn’t necessarily cheating. I just poured so much energy and expectation into the future that I’m really lost right now and I’m very very anxious that I won’t find someone like him again. He was really good to me.

Please recommend some good books!

I know many people say you shouldn’t think about getting your ex to like you but I want to hear the most effective and unhinge ways to get him to like you again.

I hear focusing on yourself works but how exactly? Tell me more.

How long did it take for you guys to reconnect once again? Did the relationship end on good terms or bad terms? How does it feel letting the person in again in your life?

I just wanna gain some perspective on it.

How long did it take for you guys to reconnect once again? Did the relationship end on good terms or bad terms? How does it feel letting the person in again in your life?

I just wanna gain some perspective on it.

How do you process or function when you have this heavy chest that you can’t seem to relax? My life cannot stop just because of a 4 year break up. No matter how many deep sigh I make, it doesn’t go away. I don’t feel like crying either because I’ve already cried a lot and even if I do, it’s still there? What do you call this?

[Academic] Hi everyone! I'm a fashion marketing student in Milan. I’m doing a short questionnaire about skincare habits and preferences. It only takes about 5-10 minutes, and your answers would really help me out 🥹

If you’re into skincare (or even just casually use products), I’d love your input!

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Thank you so much!! (tmi: currently experiencing the greatest breakup of all time and I only now found the courage to start working again after two weeks. root for me!)