I am long distance with my bf and he recently made a friend that I don’t know about. He has been spending a lot of time with her, exploring cafes during library lunch breaks. And I didn’t like it. Hes someone who is very social and makes friends very easily. That was one of the things that I loved about him before we got together
And then they posted a cutesy picture of getting matcha and i didn’t like it. We had a fight and he explained its just a friend and he consoled me and I was fine.
We are ldr anf he visited me this weekend. I took his phone to the bathroom cuz mine died. Very common between us. I saw a notification from her and opened their chat. Lots of meme exchanges and messages all okay. But here and there it crosses the line i feel. They bonded over horses I think and talked about gym.
My bf always tells people to always do more and have fun and is always encouraging. I saw a message that says she is going to the gym now and he said take pics or she sent a horse meme that says something wholesome ig and she asks “can we be horses in our mext life”.
Idk what to think. I got cheated in my last relationship and am struggling with this one. My bf has always had a lot of female friends and nothing bothered me but this does.
I want to be honest and tell him that I checked his phone so we can sort this but idk what to do now. What if its something or worse what if it’s nothing.