So I've ordered this today - Legion tab gen 2. I want your opinion guys. I am only going to use it for watching online lectures and Youtube. I am concerned that Lenovo is giving pre-activated devices with only 2-3 months of warranty left and since this tablet is already 2 years old, I hope that doesn't happen with mine. At the same price, or with 5-6k more, should I have gone for something else? (INR)
So I said goodbye to her last month. To summarise, her parents fixed her arranged marriage and I tried everything I could, but nothing worked. In the end, I had to let her go. Her engagement was supposed to happen around this time. After saying goodbye, I blocked her everywhere.
But last night around 11pm, she started calling and called 20–25 times, then again today morning and once in the evening. Though I have blocked her, but you still get that notification when a blocked number calls.
The possibilities I am considering are: maybe that rishta didn't work out, or she just missed me and wanted to talk on her birthday. Whatever the reason, I don't have energy to listen to her. I don't want to know what's going on in her life, what happened over last month, or what's going to happen next. I don't even understand how she expected me to wish her on her birthday. During our goodbye, I asked her for just one day, one day to talk for closure, but she didn't give me that. She asked me to go away and stop texting her. Now she's calling after a month.
Do you guys think I should have wished her and blocked her again? I just want her to stop calling me. I am trying my best to move on and now she interfered with these calls. After saying goodbye, I don't want to reopen this chapter.
I just need your opinion on what to do if she tries to contact me using other numbers. I know I won't talk, but I still needed to say this here with you all. She's still calling while I am writing this, I am getting those notifications.
So I said goodbye to her last month. To summarise, her parents fixed her arranged marriage and I tried everything I could, but nothing worked. In the end, I had to let her go. Her engagement was supposed to happen around this time. After saying goodbye, I blocked her everywhere.
But last night around 11pm, she started calling and called 20–25 times, then again today morning and once in the evening. Though I have blocked her, but you still get that notification when a blocked number calls.
The possibilities I am considering are: maybe that rishta didn't work out, or she just missed me and wanted to talk on her birthday. Whatever the reason, I don't have energy to listen to her. I don't want to know what's going on in her life, what happened over last month, or what's going to happen next. I don't even understand how she expected me to wish her on her birthday. During our goodbye, I asked her for just one day, one day to talk for closure, but she didn't give me that. She asked me to go away and stop texting her. Now she's calling after a month.
Do you guys think I should have wished her and blocked her again? I just want her to stop calling me. I am trying my best to move on and now she interfered with these calls. After saying goodbye, I don't want to reopen this chapter.
I just need your opinion on what to do if she tries to contact me using other numbers. I know I won't talk, but I still needed to say this here with you all. She's still calling while I am writing this, I am getting those notifications.
Does ADHD make us experience breakups differently?
Sometimes it feels like I experience emotions very intensely, but then I keep avoiding or postponing the grief and thoughts that come with it. It's like I procrastinate processing the breakup itself.
We broke up last month, and it was the worst kind of breakup. She's getting married to someone else. I said goodbye, felt everything very deeply at that time, and then after a few days, I started avoiding all those thoughts that I probably should be dealing with.
This avoidance feels very similar to how I avoid other things in my life. It's like my brain just keeps pushing it away. At times, it even feels like the breakup didn't really happen and we are both just not talking with each other, is it because I haven't fully processed it?
Is this just me, or have others with ADHD experienced something similar?