u/FluffyKita

Beware all of you will DA or GA exes or maybe have avoidant attachment yourself.

Perhaps alcohol temporarily makes avoidant more affectionate, in reality it only kind of fries nervous system and deepens avoidance and distrust in oneself and others.

Ask me how I know. Being FA on healing path of learning emotional regulation and mostly sober for a year, I slipped the other night and my avoidant side kicked in. Now being sober again everything is allright.

My DA ex was secret functional alcoholic gulping vodka when alone and I’m quite sure with howclosed off he is he won’t be able to climb out of avoidance and addiction.