u/Fine-Internet6328

I've (23F) been seeing a guy (23M) for a month and a half, things were going great, met each other friends, etc. Saturday we talked normally, he invited me to dinner. Sunday we didn’t talk. Monday I asked him if the dinner was still on and if he was okay, and later that night I asked again (I also asked his friend if something had happened to him, to check his wellbeing, we had a plan after all). Tuesday he told me it was because of work, and I told him it hurt me and asked if we could talk about it on a call. Wednesday he said yes, then I explained him a bit about my issues with ghosting/anxiety (which he was previously aware of and told me if i ever get anxious to just text him), and later that night I asked to schedule the call. Thursday I insisted. Friday nothing (his friend also asked him if he was going to reply to me). And Saturday, he posted a story and I told him he had treated me really badly and gave up on him. I think I overreacted, partially because I'm with exams and very stressed, but he wasn't very considerate with my feelings. I unfollowed him, but he still follows me. Was he an avoidant or was i too much?

"I've (23F) been seeing a guy (23M) for a month and a half, things were going great, met each other friends, etc. Saturday we talked normally, he invited me to dinner. Sunday we didn’t talk. Monday I asked him if the dinner was still on and if he was okay, and later that night I asked again (I also asked his friend if something had happened to him, because we had a plan and I didn't have a follow-up and I was worried about his wellbeing). Tuesday he told me it was because of work, and I told him it hurt me and asked if we could talk about it on a call. Wednesday he said yes, then I explained him a bit about my issues with ghosting/anxiety (which he was previously aware of and told me if i ever get anxious just text him), and later that night I asked to schedule the call. Thursday I insisted. Friday nothing (his friend, by her own volition, also asked him if he was going to reply to me). And Saturday, he posted a story and I told him he had treated me really badly and gave up on him. I think I overreacted, partially because I'm with exams and very stressed, but he wasn't very considerate with my feelings.

I've (23F) been seeing a guy (23M) for a month and a half, things were going great, met each other friends, etc. Saturday we talked normally, he invited me to dinner. Sunday we didn’t talk. Monday I asked him if the dinner was still on and if he was okay, and later that night I asked again (I also asked his friend if something had happened to him). Tuesday he told me it was because of work, and I told him it hurt me and asked if we could talk about it on a call. Wednesday he said yes (by text), then I explained him a bit about my issues (also by text) with ghosting/anxiety (which he was previously aware of and told me if i ever get anxious just tell him), and later that night I asked to schedule the call. Thursday I insisted. Friday nothing (his friend also asked him if he was going to reply to me). And Saturday, he posted a story and I told him he had treated me really badly and gave up on him. I think I overreacted, partially because I'm with exams and very stressed, but he wasn't very considerate with my feelings. Am I the asshole?

I've (23F) been seeing a guy (23M) for a month and a half, things were going great, met each other friends, etc. Saturday we talked normally, he invited me to dinner. Sunday we didn’t talk. Monday I asked him if the dinner was still on and if he was okay, and later that night I asked again (I also asked his friend if something had happened to him). Tuesday he told me it was because of work, and I told him it hurt me and asked if we could talk about it on a call. Wednesday he said yes, we could I explained a bit about my issues with ghosting/anxiety (which he was previously aware of), and later that night I asked when we were going to have the call. Thursday I insisted. Friday nothing (his friend also asked him if he was going to reply to me). And Saturday, he posted a story and I told him he had treated me really badly. I think I overreacted, but he wasn't very considerate with my feelings. Am I the asshole?