u/Final_Operation_8879

So basically this guy and i been talking for a few days and make sex jokes all the time like yeah i get it i do make them with my close friends but we're not close friends, why would you make such jokes with a girl you started talking a few days back and whenever i point it out he just says i'm a man i can't help it . As we were talking he asked me what my type is and i told him mature, educated and introverted guys and he started making fun of it saying you sound like you need an accountant and they don't know a thing in bed like what.It's not just him i've talked to various guys and they all were like that.

I'll go first mine are those mean professor fanfics i eat that shit up.

Relationship with an avoidant narcissist guy, they always intrigue me so much, all of my crushes have been like that only, my friends always tell me this is not fine, if not fine how do I stop romanticizing it.idk but they seem to be mature and secure. And maybe I like being fed crumbs🧍‍♀️

So basically i have a friend, not a friend more like an acquaintance because he sees no point in friendship. So basically this guy he don't feel the will to do anything. He does things that are necessary,do them and call it off a day. He doesn’t have any friends cause he don't see the point, he never talks to anyone unless necessary.

He is just breathing and not living he says he never felt the 'spark' that people talk about. He never felt that spark and he says this is all meaningless we live and then we die for nothing. No he is not a nihilistic because nilhist enjoy the thinhs they like but he doesn’t like anything. He says he has no will to do anything, he never felt the will this is all stupid. There is nothing that ever made him feel like something, he tried all of the things religion, gym, working out things and all that stuff but he doesn’t feel the will to do anything. He once told me he had a few pets but then after sometimes he felt that how much all this is stupid he wasted his time on some animals and then he gave them away.

So i am not saying that i need to change him completely, ofc i do respect his prospective but i feel really for him he is young(he is in university) and like if everything is meaningless to him there should be something that makes him happy, so is there a way to make him feel something, like to make him feel something. To make him feel like even if we didn't choose this party, we can make it much out of it while we are here. To make him feel connection. Any advice will be appreciated a lot, i'll be really grateful for it

So basically i have a friend, not a friend more like an acquaintance because he sees no point in friendship. So basically this guy he don't feel the will to do anything. He does things that are necessary,do them and call it off a day. He doesn’t have any friends cause he don't see the point, he never talks to anyone unless necessary.

He is just breathing and not living he says he never felt the 'spark' that people talk about. He never felt that spark and he says this is all meaningless we live and then we die for nothing. No he is not a nihilistic because nilhist enjoy the thinhs they like but he doesn’t like anything. He says he has no will to do anything, he never felt the will this is all stupid. There is nothing that ever made him feel like something, he tried all of the things religion, gym, working out things and all that stuff but he doesn’t feel the will to do anything. He once told me he had a few pets but then after sometimes he felt that how much all this is stupid he wasted his time on some animals and then he gave them away.

So i am not saying that i need to change him completely, ofc i do respect his prospective but i feel really for him he is young(he is in university) and like if everything is meaningless to him there should be something that makes him happy, so is there a way to make him feel something, like to make him feel something. To make him feel like even if we didn't choose this party, we can make it much out of it while we are here. To make him feel connection. Any advice will be appreciated a lot, i'll be really grateful for it.

So basically i have a friend, not a friend more like an acquaintance because he sees no point in friendship. So basically this guy he don't feel the will to do anything. He does things that are necessary,do them and call it off a day. He doesn’t have any friends cause he don't see the point, he never talks to anyone unless necessary.

He is just breathing and not living he says he never felt the 'spark' that people talk about. He never felt that spark and he says this is all meaningless we live and then we die for nothing. No he is not a nihilistic because nilhist enjoy the thinhs they like but he doesn’t like anything. He says he has no will to do anything, he never felt the will this is all stupid. There is nothing that ever made him feel like something, he tried all of the things religion, gym, working out things and all that stuff but he doesn’t feel the will to do anything. He once told me he had a few pets but then after sometimes he felt that how much all this is stupid he wasted his time on some animals and then he gave them away.

So i am not saying that i need to change him completely, ofc i do respect his prospective but i feel really for him he is young(he is in university) and like if everything is meaningless to him there should be something that makes him happy, so is there a way to make him feel something, like to make him feel something. To make him feel like even if we didn't choose this party, we can make it much out of it while we are here. To make him feel connection. Any valuable advice will be appreciated a lot, i'll be so grateful.