u/FeistyBuffalo8793

Hi guys, I wrote here a couple time in the last few months and deleted the posts, but I wanna give you an update and know yout thoughts.

About four months ago I wrote a post expressing concerns about how my 28 y/o girlfriend was behaving with her students. She kept telling me that I was just jealous of her relationship with them and that there was nothing to worry about. Everyone here told me the same.

A couple weeks ago I made another post explaining that she broke up with me, a month later came back to me, and them confessed that she had had sex with an 18 y/o student. She only told me all of it because another student was threatening her to take legal action.

Well, after everything that happened, I took her to the ER because she was expressing a desire to take her own life. They did an assessment on her and referred her to another specialist. I stayed by her side because I was deeply worried that she was gonna take her own life, and she has no one else to look out for her. Her parents don’t care, her friends don’t want anything to do with any of this.

Turns out, she has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, which makes complete sense. She’s in treatment now and receiving the help she needs.

We’re no longer together, but I still care about her and want to stay by her side and help her in this journey. A part of me still wants to go no contact and get over all of this as soon as possible, but I know that I wouldn’t be able to live with myself if I left in such a vulnerable moment.

I would like you to hear your thoughts and experiences with similar situations. Thanks.

Hi, guys.

I’m writing this because I just really have to get it off my chest.

Four months ago I wrote a post here expressing concerns about my 29 year old girlfriend.

I said that she had recently been teaching a class on a university and I was concerned about the relationship she was having with her mostly 18 year old students.

I expressed concerns because she didn’t see herself as a teacher and was behaving like just another student with them. She talked to them about relationships, sex and very personal stuff. She was hanging out with them every single day after class and I was concerned because I know she’s a very impulsive person who believes limits don’t exist.

She told me that I was just jealous of the amazing relationship that she had with them. She told me that she told all of her friends and that none of them saw nothing wrong with what was happening.

Everyone here also told me that I was jealous and a she was doing nothing wrong. I was told that she should dump me for being possessive.

Well! She did break up with me, then she proceeded to wait until one of her students turned 18 to have sex with her. It was also the girls first time.

Then she came back to me and told me that she loved me and that she wanted to marry me, without telling me anything that had happened.

Just yesterday, she finally confessed because another one of her students, who she was also friends with and she also made out with her, threatened her to go to the police and file a report.

She’s now telling me that she didn’t know why she did it, that she doesn’t recognize herself.

I’m not even mad, not even sad. I’m just relieved that I wasn’t fucking insane for four fucking months.