u/Fearless-Attorney-41

is it possible for my partner to not know that he messed up

me (21F) and my boyfriend (21M) is in a relationship for almost 3 years and had been in a fight since last Friday or atleast I am. I have not been replying to texts and not been doing usual things that i do. we are in a long distance relationship. He said some disrespectful remarks and did some bad things but they don't really mean that it's absolutely bad but still he knows that I am not pleased with his behaviour.

At first it was like a joke and I was playing along too but at evening I told him that i would never contact him ever again because he jokingly said he is going to leave me and stuff like that and it was a joke to me at first too like I was laughing along too.

Ever since I cut contact with him on texts he just sends random stickers and reels and calls me at night only to not say anything and sleep.Because that was something we used to do lovingly to fall asleep on calls everyday together. I repeatedly asked him if he wants to say anything or what is the reason for calling me expecting sort of an apology or anything about that day but he says nothing.

i am fed up of his behaviour so is there a possibility that he does not even know what he did? it just feels like he is waiting for me to say something. last day he asked about something I said we will do later implying that he did not even consider the fact that we are actually breaking up. I feel like he is just waiting for my anger to pass so that we can resume the relationship. But i don't understand how he thinks it is possible without him acknowledging his bad behaviour and apologizing for it. i don't know if it is bad enough to leave the relationship because we thought of each other as partners of life and i will always try to fix and mend whatever is it but now i don't know what to do. i tried to ignore the calls and the maximum i could do was two days therefore i am at a bleak here..

me 21F and my boyfriend 21M is in a relationship for almost 3 years and had been in a fight since last Friday or atleast I am. I have not been replying to texts and not been doing usual things that i do. we are in a long distance relationship. He said some disrespectful remarks and did some bad things but they don't really mean that it's absolutely bad but still he knows that I am not pleased with his behaviour.

At first it was like a joke and I was playing along too but at evening I told him that i would never contact him ever again because he jokingly said he is going to leave me and stuff like that and it was a joke to me at first too like I was laughing along too.

Ever since I cut contact with him on texts he just sends random stickers and reels and calls me at night only to not say anything and sleep.Because that was something we used to do lovingly to fall asleep on calls everyday together. I repeatedly asked him if he wants to say anything or what is the reason for calling me expecting sort of an apology or anything about that day but he says nothing.

i am fed up of his behaviour so is there a possibility that he does not even know what he did? it just feels like he is waiting for me to say something. last day he asked about something I said we will do later implying that he did not even consider the fact that we are actually breaking up. I feel like he is just waiting for my anger to pass so that we can resume the relationship. But i don't understand how he thinks it is possible without him acknowledging his bad behaviour and apologizing for it. i don't know if it is bad enough to leave the relationship because we thought of each other as partners of life and i will always try to fix and mend whatever is it but now i don't know what to do. i tried to ignore the calls and the maximum i could do was two days therefore i am at a bleak here..

i 21M and my gf 21F had been dating for almost 3 years now. i always tell her to initiate more things like calls etc but she never does. she has a big issue with remembering things and even if i told her multiple times she would just forget about it. In the beginning she used to say stuff like she's not a normal girlfriend material but I liked it all then. as the time passes i am having issues with things and we recently had a big fight about it. She does not want to let me go and always says things like she will fix it and ask me to reconsider. She has been making small changes like small initiatives but overall it still feels stagnant. i love her and I know that she loves me very much too. it's not to say that she is not expressive at all. she expresses herself in texts and irl too but we are doing long distance now for some months so.

I am 21 F and bf 21 M and is in a relationship for 2 years and 9 months. is it cheating if my bf texted his ex gf infront of me and asked her if she's single or in a relationship to make me possesive since I said i don't have possesiveness but he insists I do. I did not get possesive and got disgusted instead and he kept making jokes about breaking up since the morning and at first it was fun and i was playing along too but in evening I asked if it was serious and he said yes and I asked why and he said he got a better option. I got angry and I decided to not show anger and just stood up and decided to leave and told him that I will never text him again. He now just sends random stickers for like 4 days and now that has stopped too. He calls at night for us to sleep together and I asked do you remember you breaking up with me and he just hung up on me like ahh she's still mad and thinking about it. The day after the whole incident happened I did not attend to his 12 calls because I felt like even that wasn't enough and he did not apologize still. what do I even do in this situation?