My ghosting experience and her finally contacting me.
I came to this subreddit to find answers months ago.
Had seen her twice, long distance, flew out to see her because I promised we’d see our favorite artist together, I was broke and jobless and things kinda went bad. I flew back home. Ghosted. She had soft blocked me by not looking at my ig stories, then months later finally unfriending me. I had no answers, I was in a loop and rumination.
Months of venting to my friends, months of self-therapy. I wondered how our interaction would be if she ever decided to answer me.
She messaged me because she was wondering if I still had a festival ticket I had bought for her. A simple sorry for what happened but willing to buy it.
That’s it. The closure was her leaving and me blaming myself this whole time, only for her to apologize for what happened but asking for a favor.
And that meant nothing to me at this point. Tbh it’s insulting. Months of me working on myself, for her to apologize for leaving me without an answer.
A simple sorry might have sufficed. Asking to pay for something that woulda have been free in the first place is crazy work.