u/Excellent-Grade3544

My ghosting experience and her finally contacting me.

I came to this subreddit to find answers months ago.

Had seen her twice, long distance, flew out to see her because I promised we’d see our favorite artist together, I was broke and jobless and things kinda went bad. I flew back home. Ghosted. She had soft blocked me by not looking at my ig stories, then months later finally unfriending me. I had no answers, I was in a loop and rumination.

Months of venting to my friends, months of self-therapy. I wondered how our interaction would be if she ever decided to answer me.

She messaged me because she was wondering if I still had a festival ticket I had bought for her. A simple sorry for what happened but willing to buy it.

That’s it. The closure was her leaving and me blaming myself this whole time, only for her to apologize for what happened but asking for a favor.

And that meant nothing to me at this point. Tbh it’s insulting. Months of me working on myself, for her to apologize for leaving me without an answer.

A simple sorry might have sufficed. Asking to pay for something that woulda have been free in the first place is crazy work.

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u/Excellent-Grade3544 — 6 days ago

After Ghosting me and soft blocking me (not watching my IG stories), months later to unfriending me.
She finally reached out to me because she wanted something from me. I had bought her festival tickets this past year, merch, flew out to see her and get ghosted.
Now she reaches out because she needs help getting a ticket for a festival coming up next week.

It was a short sorry about what happened but asking if I have an extra ticket.

Unbelievable.

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u/Excellent-Grade3544 — 9 days ago

I decided to do one more order before heading home. It was cheap like $6 for a couple miles and a pick up at 7/11.

As I arrive, I get a call from the “costumer”.

Text: Pick Up The Phone

Call: “Hello is this [My Name]? Are you at the pick up spot? I have very specific instructions. You don’t actually have to pick up the order. We’ve been getting complaints from families in the area….”

I hung up right away and canceled it. It was very odd, I tried contacting support about it but it, but I ended up with the “something went wrong”. That’s how my cancellation rate went up.

I feel like I read about this before so my appreciation for not falling victim to something nefarious.

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u/Excellent-Grade3544 — 16 days ago

I always hovered over 95%. I don’t know but lately it’s been so off. Even if I’m inside the restaurant. The app says “arriving” while I’m literally inside waiting. Is this a glitch on behalf of UE.

It’s almost like you need to on the road immediately and not find available legal parking. This rate does not account for so many issues can happen on a single order.

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u/Excellent-Grade3544 — 16 days ago