u/Even-Radio-5307

Some basic info, I’m F16 and my best friend is also F16. Yes, I know, we are teens, but I really don’t want to hear that “it’s just some teen drama, you guys will figure it out anyway” bullshit, I want HELP💔

Me and my best friend (let’s call her Emily) have been friends for like a year now and I really love and trust her, but lately, she has been super annoying. The first 11 months of our friendship had been perfect and we really could joke about anything. About one month ago, she got a new friend named Alex. She has been OBSESSED with him. He was all she talked about and I really didn’t mind until she started getting super distant and she also started to hang out with Alex SO much that she didn’t even have time for me anymore. Due to that, she has been getting mad at me for EVERYTHING.

I asked her if she wanted to come to see my cheerleading practice and then come over to my place so we could watch some movies and do something fun like we always do every 11th of the month. It had been our cute tradition for a year and it sounds silly but it means more to me than you can imagine because Emily really is the only thing keeping me alive. Well, she got mad at me for asking that because she already had plans with Alex even though she definitely knew about that day since it’s the same day every month. She knows it means much to me so I got really upset by it and told her if she keeps choosing Alex over me all the time, she can really stop talking to me. She told me I’m insecure and jealous because she has new friends??🤔

Now she has been distancing herself from me completely and keep giving me weird looks. I’m really tired of it because Emily has a girlfriend and even she has told her that she’s a little uncomfortable with the fact that Emily is so close to him and spends more time with him than she does with her. She just called her girlfriend insecure and told her she’s overreacting.

I really love her and she’s the reason why I’m still here but I don’t want to be chase after a person who clearly doesn’t want anything to do with me anymore.

So sorry if there’s some spelling mistakes , I’m from 🇯🇵 and English isn’t my first language ahaha. Also sorry, it’s a little long but whatever

EDIT: did you guys just fucking miss the part where I said she has a gf and that guy isn’t her bf? She likes GIRLS!!! Jesus I’m not asking her to choose me over her romantic partner

So I’m 16 and I was raped, or I think I was?? So long story short, I told my mom about it and she did NOT react like i thought she would.🌚 She told me to “get over it” because I’m not pregnant and she was a woman. She said “it’s not exactly rape because she’s a woman”. She’s super religious so she was more disgusted by the fact that I had sex with a woman?? What do I even do??

BTW!! The woman was 22-24