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I have been offered a job in kotak mahindra bank limited- Mumbai.

The offered salary is 10lpa

What would be the grade and designation, for the same most probably?

My brother has completed MBA Tech from NMIMS who’s 25 now
BTech - Mechanical Engineering
MBA- Finance and business analytics

Later he worked in Aditya Birla Insurance, as SLP manager, he was asked to leave in 9 months since he couldn’t achieve the sales target.

He then got into HDFC as a preferred relationship manager through reference. He’s not doing too well here, branch banking is not something that he can continue for long

What is the best route forward?

- Left me on the road and walked away

- Didn’t talk to me for 24hrs when i said i want to go to gym

- Accused me of making out with someone when i was alone

- Fought with me for 8 hrs because i didnt call him when he went to a boys trip, made him talk to my mom even then and it didn’t work

- Liked a girl’s post and lied about it for 2 days and then accused me of sleeping with my ex boss a day after he was with me for 2 nights

- Didn’t call me from 7pm to 2am when he went to wedding

- Tested me about marriage then never brought the topic up after forcefully coercing me to it

- On video call on Thursday he cut the video call by saying that his mom is there and he will call back but he didnt he instead started sharing reels, just because he didnt want to

- Left me alone to go home when i was drunk, he didnt tell it to me until we had left

- Didn’t call or texted me for 24hrs after the time where i went out with colleagues to drink and eat, made excuses and said i am overacting

- Took out money from my wallet didn’t tell him until the next day 6pm when i asked him

- Told me that he wants to get me pregnant because that is the extreme solution (incase we dont get married)

- Asked him if he’s happy with me he said no

- Didn’t talk to me for the whole day, a day after which i tried to talk to his mom and sort issue ( she saw our intimate pics - not nsfw but intimate)

- Told me he is suffering because of my assumptions about him

- Told me i can say whatever i want his answer will not change, during breakup conversation

- Said no for meeting for the last time ( for closure )

- Asked him for help post breakup, eh agreed to it but later he didn’t, lied about being in police station, didn’t pickup my calls nor did he text

- After a month of no contact, he saw me in the street, i was at a shop, he didn’t cross his boundaries but kept talking loudly so that I notice

- Lurked on my colleague’s instagram to check what am i upto had to block him there

- Started reposting reels of heartbreak of him loving me but not getting any love in return

- Walked away from the table after i said “i love you” to a female colleague as a joke.

I’m sorry this is my way of coping.

For now what I can say is he was offended my everything and ashamed of nothing.

Since full moon is in Scorpio (idk what that means) and I’m an Aquarius F

My ex was a very toxic possessive and obsessive Scorpio. I saw him today and he kept staring at me, no flinch no blink. I am not sure what was that look but it didn’t seem normal. He has always avoided any kind of contact (even eye contact) post breakup, except for today when he staring into my soul. It felt like a mix of anger+yearning+hurt+wanting to talk

We had a very bad breakup (3 months ago) shit happened post breakup too.

I was so fucking anxious, my body was shaking, i got back home and vomited. I don’t know what was it.

I have noticed since past week my sleep schedule is fucked, sleepless nights, getting sick all the time overall not pretty. I was really doing well before.

P:S - Scorpio (men especially) please explain what is going on with yall

Since full moon is in Scorpio (idk what that means)

My ex was a very toxic possessive and obsessive Scorpio. I saw him today and he kept staring at me, no flinch no blink. I am not sure what was that look but it didn’t seem normal. He has always avoided any kind of contact (even eye contact) post breakup, except for today when he staring into my soul.

It felt like a mix of anger+yearning+hurt+wanting to talk

We had a very bad breakup (3 months ago) shit happened post breakup too.

I was so fucking anxious, my body was shaking, i got back home and vomited.

I have noticed since past week my sleep schedule is fucked, sleepless nights, getting sick all the time. Suddenly i got a lot of muscle pain today all over my body and the irony is that I’m using the water bag that he had gifted to relax. So overall not pretty. I was really doing well before.

Has anyone else has any of this strange things going on?

P:S - Scorpio (men especially) please explain ehat is going on with yall

I had applied for ISB YLP back in 2024 when I was in final year. I passed through the first stage. But I couldn’t attempt for the second stage as it collided with my final year exam prep and campus placements. Couldn’t take the GMAT as well.

Im applying for ISB PGP this year.

How does ISB treat reapplications?

Is there any bias or any additional criteria to look at?

How do i tackle this?

My ex works in branch banking, I had to visit the branch for some work.

Before this when I had visited (almost a month back) he had completely avoided me, no eye contact, no lingering near me nothing. It was difficult but i passed.

Today I went he kept looking at me, he turned and kept staring then he started lingering around. I felt my legs shaking. We saw each other and he didn’t blink. I had to look away. I don’t know why he didn’t avoid since that. It has been almost 3 months of the breakup

When I came back home I puked. I felt so anxious and uneasy.

We had a very volatile and intense relationship. He was very obsessive and possessive.

I don’t know what does his presence do to me I don’t know why did he keep staring this time. I don’t know why he didn’t avoid since we have blocked each other from everywhere.

I hate that i lose control even now. Its like i melt

I thought it will be okay, i thought he would be avoidant like how he was when i went to branch before. But that look, made my legs shake with anxiety

My ex works in branch banking, I had to visit the branch for some work.

Before this when I had visited (almost a month back) he had completely avoided me, no eye contact, no lingering near me nothing. It was difficult but i passed.

Today I went he kept looking at me, he turned and kept staring then he started lingering around. I felt my legs shaking. We saw each other and he didn’t blink. I had to look away.

When I came back home I puked. I felt so anxious and uneasy.

We had a very volatile and intense relationship. He was very obsessive and possessive.

I don’t know what does his presence do to me I don’t know why did he keep staring this time. I don’t know why he didn’t avoid since we have blocked each other from everywhere.

I hate that i lose control even now. Its like i melt