u/Electronic-Tear1363

I need a suit about a month from now, and in general need a suit more often, so I'm looking to buy. I am going to a Men's Wearhouse on Wednesday morning.

I'm generally fashion-averse and formal wear freaks me out, but I care about looking good for the events I have coming up, as a show of respect. I struggle with autism and new social situations and unexpected touch are really hard for me... But I find that if I have some notice ahead of time, I can regulate much better.

Can you help walk me through what I should expect? Who will I talk to? Where would people touch when measuring me? Will there be bright lights, music playing, or a lot of people who would look at me? I don't have any formal wear at all - not even a dress shirt, an undershirt, or nice shoes or socks. I'm embarrassed about this. I have no idea what colors I like - will someone suggest some, or do I need to figure that out ahead of time?

At the end of the day, I want to give these people my money to help me look nice. I'm really nervous for this and I'm worried I'll get overwhelmed. Can you help me out?