Absolutely devastated. Insurance just denied continued residental treatment for my 16 yr old.
I've had pretty good experiences so far in the 9 or so years I've had Highmark Blue Cross Blue Shield insurance, but I'm just in absolute shock right now....
My wife and I have a 16 year old who has been through a lot of mental health struggles in the past few years. Substance abuse, self-harm, online trafficking, you name it, this kid has somehow experienced it.
We're on our 3rd residential treatment stay now for them and this place (All the way in california, we live in Illinois) was really looking like it might finally be the answer to all of our troubles. They've been there almost 60 days now and just yesterday morning their therapist there mentioned that their case is so severe that they may end up in residential (or something similar) until they're 18.
Then about 2 hours later we got a call saying that insurance had stopped approving their stay and they'd be discharged on Saturday.
My wife and I are gutted. We don't have their bedroom cleaned and re-painted yet, we were going to replace the flooring in there, organize everything for a fresh start.
My wife actually had planned to fly out there and visit our child this weekend becuase they'd been feeling lonely and she wanted to give them some motivation to keep working the program and finish it out... So she's on her way to California now, which we canNOT afford, and I'm at home looking down the barrel of having to clean and paint their bedroom tomorrow, gather up anything dangerous in the house and find somewhere to stash it (becuase they destroyed our safe just days before we ended up admitting them)
the doctors at the facility were all completely shocked at Highmark's decision to deny , and then subsequent decision to deny AGAIN after having a higher-level meeting about it.
I don't feel safe with this kid in my home. I don't know if I can KEEP them safe from themself. This is complete negligence pulling approval with only 2 days to prepare our home and a safety plan.
I don't know what to do