u/Efficient-Pickle-356

Surprise degu babies, what do I do now?

Surprise degu babies, what do I do now?

22 February I got 2 degus from two different breeders, they were supposed to be girls but one of them is a male and I now have 3 babies. I can’t keep all of them but I want them to have a chance at good life, where can I look for someone to take them? What to do now? When can I give the babies away? I’m so sad I can’t keep them all but I’m not prepared to care for 5 degus, how do I care for babies?

u/Efficient-Pickle-356 — 2 days ago

Since I was a kid and someone died I’ve seen them in my dreams and I usually just didn’t think much of it but there were some that still make me question whether it could be a dead person trying to communicate or if my imagination is just wild.

In 2022 three people in my family got Covid, they were older people and it quickly put them in a hospital. They were put on a ventilator and in a medically induced coma. That’s when my dreams started, all of them are starting the same way, I’m in my room and the sun is shining just the right way so the whole apartment looks golden, I hear someone knock on my front door so I go open it and the first person I’ve seen was my great grandmother, we started talking and I was asking how she was doing. She said that she’s gonna die soon and wanted to say goodbye, I asked about my aunt who was in the hospital with her and she said that aunt also has not much time and that she would not make it. They both died shortly after.

In the same month my grandpa also died from Covid, but he only visited in my dreams after his death. I was so mad at myself that I didn’t get the chance to say goodbye and I had dreams, a lot of them and they all looked the same. It started like the previous one but instead of someone knocking I was going to the kitchen and my granddad was sitting on a chair, every single time I was crying and saying I’m so sorry for not saying goodbye to him and he would just not move, stayed silent for the whole time. The last dream I had about him was the same but I broke up crying and put my head on his lap, he put his hand on my head and said he’s not mad and he forgives me. I never dreamt about him again.

All of my dreams are vivid I can move freely and I can talk in them. My grandma said that they are trying to communicate through dreams, im not sure if I believe in it. Does anybody else have their dead family members visit in dreams?

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u/Efficient-Pickle-356 — 12 days ago
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I’m 21f, last year I got out of an abusive relationship that left me traumatised and I believed for a long time that I was unable to fall in love again, then I met my late boyfriend. We known each other since kindergarten but really started talking after almost 16 years of having no contact. We hit it off right away and from the first day we’ve met we spend together every single day. We were dancing, singing, painting, driving around, did everything together and I fell in love. But at the same time I was afraid of showing my emotions because I didn’t want to get hurt so I was waiting and waiting. I was singing for him songs abo love but never told him directly just “I love you” but I showed him and I hope he knew.

Almost a month ago we got into a car accident (his friend was driving and he hit a truck on a highway), my boyfriend didn’t survive and I regret not telling him that I love him. I only told him while I was holding his hand the last few hours before his passing but he was in a coma. I regret that I agreed to go to another city with them I regret not saying that I would much rather stay at home but nobody knew we would have crashed. I miss him and how happy he made me

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u/Efficient-Pickle-356 — 13 days ago

I’ve lost my boyfriend in a car accident, when someone asks should I call him my ex? I don’t necessarily want to keep it a secret but also calling him an ex feels weird cause we never broke up. I don’t want to pretend that I didn’t have a boyfriend but it also feels wrong to call him my ex.

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u/Efficient-Pickle-356 — 15 days ago