u/Effective-Lead-2922

I’m writing about a gay man and a lesbian being in a relationship together without knowing they’re both actually queer and I wanted to have a scene that shows their struggle with intimacy towards each other. My issue is I found out I was gay at a young age so I never really got with women sexually and I never hear other queer people talk about their sex lives before they found out their actually sexuality.

Like did you still get aroused? How did you react physically? Etc.

And thanks to anyone that’ll answer :)

I’ve(17m) been friends with this guy(16m) for a while now and I’m starting to think that I like him.

-I like calling him everyday
-I think about him constantly
-I get sad when we don’t call
-I like hearing his voice
-he’s the only person I can talk to for hours
-I think he’s decently attractive
-I like it when he’s mean to me

I can never tell if I have a crush on someone or not but these are all of my signs maybe I just like him as a friend idk 😭

(Sorry if the title is awkward, i was having trouble wording it and lmk if this is the wrong place to ask for advice.)

So i(17m)really like this friend of mine(16m) he’s autistic and I don’t think he understands what I mean sometimes(actually a lot of the time) like if I’m upset he usually can’t tell unless I tell him. If I’m sad he can’t tell unless I’m bawling my eyes out.

And I’ve flirted with him slightly before tho I don’t think he took it as flirting. I just wanna know how everyone here thinks I should try flirting with him, like how can I be more direct with him and stuff.