u/Edo-Sens

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35M [M4A] #Netherlands/online Lonely guy really struggling

Hey, I’m a 35 year old guy that has really been struggling. Wouldn’t mind some companionship no matter what form that takes.

I’ve never really achieved anything, still live with my parents, never really had friends or a relationship and am really struggling with my job. On top of that I’ve got fairly severe tinnitus and eye floaters that seriously impact my life.

So all in all, I’m a bit of a weirdo failure… I don’t really expect anyone to read this or be interested, but in a way it feels nice to share this. And who knows, maybe someone might want to talk to me.

I haven’t really been happy the past 20 years and struggle with a lot of things. An online relationship recently ended and that is really tough. Plus my job is making me very uncomfortable so I’ve felt particularly bad for the past little while. I think it might be nice to talk to someone.

But that’s enough negativity. Things I’m into are video games, manga, movies/cinema, photography and cycling. I love to travel when I can, but that’s not often. Plus I’ve got two lovely cats and a dog. They make me very happy.

If you made it this far, thank you, I really appreciate it. If you want to talk, let me know. Happy to chat about literally anything ☺️

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u/Edo-Sens — 2 days ago
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I’m a 35 year old guy that has pretty much been stuck my entire life. Lots of different issues. Never really connected with anyone and feel uncomfortable around others. I haven’t really been happy the last 20 years or so. Last year I met a nice girl online and we had a wonderful online relationship. It was incredible to finally connect with someone but I struggled a lot as well. We just ended things and I can’t really handle being so alone again. I feel miserable and just wanted to share that somewhere. Thank you for reading.

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u/Edo-Sens — 7 days ago

I’ve had fairly horrible tinnitus for years now and can really struggle with it. But I just realised that yesterday was my first day where I didn’t notice it. I went through an entire normal day and simply didn’t think about it.

The fact that I’m now aware of this probably means that it won’t happen again any time soon, but it still feels fantastic. After years of it seriously affecting me, this finally gives me some hope. And that feels good :)

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u/Edo-Sens — 15 days ago