u/Dry-Addition-5903

We've been dating for almost 6 months now. We have disagreements on almost a weekly basis, even when we first started dating. Not fight-level with name-calling or yelling, but long texts, gaps of contact, lots of serious conversations & phone calls.

Not to get into a lot of detail but some of the stuff is small, other stuff is more important/red flag territory. I sometimes feel humiliated/embarrassed being with him because of how he talks to me, especially in front of other people.

A lot of the times it's me bringing up issues, hardly him. The conflict resolution is okay, he's receptive and promises change but I don't see it very much. Also, some of the stuff we argue about feels like I'm fighting for the bare minimum.

We broke up once and got back together, and something recently happened that is very similar to what caused the first breakup. I'm exhausted from having to be put through an emotional rollercoaster every week, especially since it's also a stressful time for me outside of this relationship. We have good times, but the lows are quite low and it happens too often. Considering breaking up because I can't see myself being with someone who can treat me this way, and I think I deserve better, but can't tell if I'm being dramatic/avoidant.

TLDR: I'm really hurt by my bf's actions and emotionally exhausted from dealing w issues every week. Is it supposed to be this difficult early into a relationship or is it a sign to run?

We've been dating for almost 6 months now. We have disagreements on almost a weekly basis, even when we first started dating. Not fight-level with name-calling or yelling, but long texts, gaps of contact, lots of serious conversations & phone calls.

Not to get into a lot of detail but some of the stuff is small, other stuff is more important/red flag territory. I sometimes feel humiliated/embarrassed being with him because of how he talks to me, especially in front of other people.

A lot of the times it's me bringing up issues, hardly him. The conflict resolution is okay, he's receptive and promises change but I don't see it very much. Also, some of the stuff we argue about feels like I'm fighting for the bare minimum.

We broke up once and got back together, and something recently happened that is very similar to what caused the first breakup. I'm exhausted from having to be put through an emotional rollercoaster every week, especially since it's also a stressful time for me outside of this relationship. We have good times, but the lows are quite low and it happens too often. Considering breaking up because I can't see myself being with someone who can treat me this way, and I think I deserve better, but can't tell if I'm being dramatic/avoidant.

We've (me-21F, him-21M) been dating for almost 6 months now. We have disagreements on almost a weekly basis, even when we first started dating. Not fight-level with name-calling or yelling, but long texts, gaps of contact, lots of serious conversations & phone calls.

Not to get into a lot of detail but some of the stuff is small, other stuff is more important/red flag territory. I sometimes feel humiliated/embarrassed being with him because of how he talks to me, especially in front of other people.

A lot of the times it's me bringing up issues, hardly him. The conflict resolution is okay, he's receptive and promises change but I don't see it very much. Also, some of the stuff we argue about feels like I'm fighting for the bare minimum.

We broke up once and got back together, and something recently happened that is very similar to what caused the first breakup. I'm exhausted from having to be put through an emotional rollercoaster every week, especially since it's also a stressful time for me outside of this relationship. We have good times, but the lows are quite low and it happens too often. Considering breaking up because I can't see myself being with someone who can treat me this way, and I think I deserve better, but can't tell if I'm being dramatic/avoidant.