u/Ding-Dong-Diddily

My cousin who has recently turned 14 has beaten his mum up. He’s very violent these days. The police and socials don’t act. They keep telling her to call them up and log it.

I’ve told her to just take his keys off him and kick him out. He will kill her one of these days and she’s got other kids to think about.

His dad is a waste of time, blames her a lot. Which is ridiculous because she’s been the only parent he’s ever had.

We’re confused on what to do now as the police and socials are a waste of time. And I wonder how long until he gets worse.

He’s violent practically every day now. Smashing up things in the house, threatening to break expensive things and hurting her and his siblings.

I can’t stand it anymore. I want him out of their house for their safety. She’s tried to get cahms to see him but they refused because he isn’t someone they’d typically deal with.

I can’t stand around and watch him hurt the people I love. Not when they’re trying to help him and ask for help for themselves and people turn a blind eye.

I’ve posted about this before and honestly things have gotten worse since then. I need something fast. Where he can be taken away asap because I don’t think we have time to spare.

I was trying to make a rather large purchase on Amazon. Almost £300. And it asked me to confirm with my bank. But then I remembered I made a lot of purchases to my family’s houses. So I went back to check my address. And then the stuff disappeared from my cart. And then I realise it says my order has been confirmed. No money has been taken from my bank yet. But I’m confused. Is this an error? Should I cancel the order and remake it? Because I need this order by Sunday at the latest, so I can’t mess around. Thanks.

The person who called to confirm my interview told me that it’s an informal meeting. But I want to dress semi casual. The weather is getting warmer so I’m just wondering how I can make myself look presentable without being overheated.

I’m debating getting some smarter shoes as I only wear converse and vans. Then I thought about wearing a plain black or cream jumper. With black or grey jeans. Thoughts?

The job itself is quite a casual job. I don’t want to go into specifics. But I imagine I’ll either be in the companies clothes or wearing all black.

I hope this helps. Thanks.

I have a hard time shaving my butt. I feel like the razor I use is too big and bulky so it doesn’t get into the places I need it to. If anyone can recommend a razor or technique on how to get a perfect shave then I’d be extremely grateful.

I was supposed to go for an ultrasound months ago. The communication from the drs was appalling. I was told to go to a hospital over an hour and a half away. I didn’t book an appointment as my car was having trouble. Then I went back to the drs asking them to rebook. Said they would and they didn’t. So I went back again and they did. Now I’m being told they’ve rejected me and I need to go and do more blood. But my blood has already shown higher testosterone levels and prediabetes so I don’t know what more they want from me. I’d be happy to update my bloods but the fact that they’ve rejected my ultrasound request and now I’ve got to get bloods done and then be referred again is really annoying me. I’ve been having a lot of trouble with my periods, infertility, and ovaries in general so I want answers asap. I don’t know whether it’s a mix of pcos and endometriosis but it looks like I won’t find out for some time.

I feel really upset by this. I’ve waited years to try and get this sorted. At first I was told I have IBS. Then we did tests for gastrointestinal issues and only after me asking to be tested for PCOS a bunch of times did they actually listen and put me in for testing.

The message from the drs:
“Just informing you that your USS has been rejected to no updated Hormonal Blood test and no significance of repeating it if there is no evidence for Infertility.
The Doctor has requested the Blood , please pick them up from the Surgery.”

For the last few days I’ve had an on and off itchy bum hole. I’ve not had worms since I was a child but I’m worried it might be that. No one in the household has mentioned having any symptoms. So I think it might be something else.

I do take orlistat and I have had a few sharting occasions. I’ve had to wear period pads to catch any spills. But sometimes I can’t get to the toilet asap. Like if a family member is in the way. Or if I’m in public. But when I do I try to use a toilet wipe to clean my hole as best as possible. But I wonder if the oils are getting trapped in the creases. I did use some diaper rash cream but I’ve misplaced it.

I can’t see itchy bumhole as a side effect for taking orlistat. It’s not super bad where I need to scratch it. But it comes for a few minutes now and again and goes. Any tips on how to make it go away.

The child beats his siblings and parents up. He’s threatening to kill them. We’re worried for their safety. Please help.

My cousin is extremely violent. He lashes out, breaks things, hurts people. How can I get him help? His parents don’t seem to care. He’s going to end up killing someone one day and I will not stand by and let it happen. I don’t know how I can get him help. He’s a teenager now so I really need someone to step in and make sure he finds a way to calm down instead of resorting to violence. I really do worry that he’ll kill someone.