Sometimes life gets really hard, but trust that better days will come. After tears comes laughter, and after sadness comes relief.
"You know not; perhaps Allāh will bring about after that a different matter." Quran 65-1
Sometimes we admire someone so much that we start using them as a standard for everyone else.
And without even noticing, we begin comparing people to someone they were never meant to be compared to.
Or we build this “perfect person” in our head — perfect friend, perfect partner, perfect everything — and then expect real people to match it.
But the truth is simple: people are just not the same.
Everyone is shaped by their own abilities, experiences, and circumstances.
That one exceptional person you admire… they’re not a universal standard. They’re just one person in one specific context.
Fairness begins when we try to see people as they really are, not as we imagine they should be.
Sometimes we admire someone so much that we start using them as a standard for everyone else.
And without even noticing, we begin comparing people to someone they were never meant to be compared to.
Or we build this “perfect person” in our head — perfect friend, perfect partner, perfect everything — and then expect real people to match it.
But the truth is simple: people are just not the same.
Everyone is shaped by their own abilities, experiences, and circumstances.
That one exceptional person you admire… they’re not a universal standard. They’re just one person in one specific context.
Fairness begins when we try to see people as they really are, not as we imagine they should be.
Sometimes we admire someone so much that we start using them as a standard for everyone else.
And without even noticing, we begin comparing people to someone they were never meant to be compared to.
Or we build this “perfect person” in our head — perfect friend, perfect partner, perfect everything — and then expect real people to match it.
But the truth is simple: people are just not the same.
Everyone is shaped by their own abilities, experiences, and circumstances.
That one exceptional person you admire… they’re not a universal standard. They’re just one person in one specific context.
Fairness begins when we try to see people as they really are, not as we imagine they should be.