I was talking to a girl I met on Hinge long distance and we talked for a few months before meeting once. I truly liked her and growing trust, but things felt a bit uncertain—she wanted more openness from me (like photos/socials), but I was being cautious because I don’t usually share that early when I meet someone online. She also mentioned she was dating other people, and I was just moving more slowly because of the distance and wanting to be careful. After we met, she said I seemed “sneaky” because of how I was holding my phone . Days later, she tells me doesn’t want to continue exploring, so she ended things this past Friday. I respected it and we left it there. I’ve been thinking about it a lot but also moving forward.
Do you think it’s even worth me reaching out later or should I just leave it forever? She met a lot of things I was looking for in a woman but I had some things I was still observing at my own pace as far as her ability to communicate or going cold when she didn’t like something.