u/CtrlAltFlwr

DIM simplus multicooker
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DIM simplus multicooker

planning to buy an electric cooker since my space isn't really practical for induction stoves and different pots, ive been seeing lots of reviews about this brand but okay ba talaga siya? di ko gano mapagkatiwalaan ang tiktok reviews since laging bagong use pa lang naman. mabilis bang magbakbak ang non-stick film niya? tyia!

u/CtrlAltFlwr — 3 days ago
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it may be a dumb question (kasi personally for me i dont mind) pero why are some people so against double deck beds? like sa most posts of people hunting for dorms, nasa non nego nila na dapat hindi bunk beds

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u/CtrlAltFlwr — 7 days ago

my gf always notices my food fixation which lasts around at least a month, im just curious what other meals you guys have as safe foods 😆 there was one time id just eat burger patties for breakfast and id rather not eat than have anything else. also could this he a sign for another underlying issue?

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u/CtrlAltFlwr — 9 days ago

I’m in a really healthy (wlw) relationship with my girlfriend—she’s genuinely the sweetest and most understanding person I’ve ever met. We’ve never had big fights, no yelling or anything like that, just occasional misunderstandings. But there’s a pattern that’s starting to bother both of us.

Whenever I do something that upsets her (even something small), I feel really bad about it. Then she feels bad because I feel bad. It turns into this cycle where neither of us gets to fully process our own emotions.

The main issue is that I almost always end up crying when this happens. I don’t do it intentionally, and I’m definitely not trying to manipulate her—I just genuinely can’t control it. I think part of it is because I don’t mask around her, so even small emotional shifts hit me really strongly.

She’s told me that she struggles when she sees me like that. It makes her feel like she has to set aside her own feelings because she doesn’t want to make me cry or feel worse. I’ve been trying not to cry during these situations, but I honestly can’t seem to stop it.

For context, I’m autistic (she knows this and is very understanding about it), but I’m not sure if this is emotional dysregulation related to that, or if it’s just something I need to work on personally. I really don’t want this to become something that limits her ability to express herself.

Has anyone experienced something similar? How do we handle this in a way that’s healthy for both of us?

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u/CtrlAltFlwr — 11 days ago