u/Cool-Expression-273

I'm 25 | M

Looking for a daily accountability partner to stay consistent with building my LinkedIn portfolio, hitting fitness goals, and practicing guitar. I am a Data Analyst and ML Engineer seeking someone reliable who will show up every day to talk, check in, and push me to stay on track with these specific targets. In return, I’ll provide the same level of daily engagement and support for your goals—if you are driven and ready to maintain a high-consistency routine together, please send me a DM or comment here..!!

edit :- I'm In GMT +5:30 but any timezone is fine by me.

This might be subjective, but

I'm an ENFP

And I've seen a lot of people expecting a lot from me...

I usually have a knack for doing things naturally for the first time...

And also I can adapt to places , situations and skills very easily...

Only the focused , long and concentrated sessions are my kryptonite....

So when people see me breezing through stuff as a beginner

They compliment me and expect a lot , lot , lot from me....

"Dude , this guy will rock it ,I'm sure..!"

Faculty , Parents , First Impressions , Dating Partners

All of them expect a lot

Kind of like "HALO Effect"

And it's like

They're 100% sure that I'll achieve my goals no matter what..!!

Most of the times , this favours me , ( me getting privilege / priority over others)

But except that , i feel crushed by their expectations

Even if i perform a task , which was genuinely difficult for me

And complete / achieve a goal...

They'll just label it as "I knew you would do it , whats so surprising in it?"

Whatever i do is not being appreciated genuinely.

This is a Double Edged Sword.

Fellow ENFP's , do you gys experience the same thing?

I (enfp) always found it extremely easy to explain things to someone..

Like , there will be a session of me teaching someone something , and it's like I thrive when others ask a lot of questions....

And then suddenly

When i conclude something , i usually end it with something that connects all the dots that I tried to explain..

People get a big revelation

Its like their Eureka moment....

Lot of people have also complimented me and said they would prefer me teaching instead of teacher/faculty.

Did this happen to you guys as well?

Are we genuinely good at teaching

Or are we good at lying / pretending to know things

But not knowing stuff in reality.

Also Do you gys thrive in an environment full of doubts / questions in your direction.

Im an ENFP - 25(M).

all my life i only had Male Friends.

they would describe me as the dirtiest mind of the group and good humour.

i naturally flirt with guys the wrong way (the kind of way that you can not and should not flirt with a girl).

making the convo awkward but funny, but no one complains about it..!!

But when it comes to speaking with girls, im like the most silent and introverted guy there is...

Its very recently that i have developed social ability and overcome social anxiety.

Recently i kind of noticed girls actually smiling and giggling like crazy when they're talking to me.

and the dominant Girls Flirt with me like im some kind of a toy.

i act very dumb , portraying that i dont understand the flirting going on and i become an innocent target for bad girls to feast on me (which i enjoy ) :)

and girls double down and play with me even more.

so fellow ENFP's did this happen to you?

and did you develop flirting skills through scenarios like these?
or were you naturally flirty?

I'm a 25(M) , me and my friends talk alot about how to stay disciplined and be accountable for each other.
i have tried the nofap challenge and my best so far was around 3 months (100+)

but in doing so , i didnt find any significant changes in me
sure being super addicted has a lot of disadvantages
but i dont see the reason to just -Not Fap Forever at all
why even bother for such discipline that doesnt bring you reward

gys i dont mean to offend anyone reading this

maybe im not aware of how good nofap is