u/Commercial_Kale_4341

How are we finding chances for time with our partners when baby is sleeping?

I sleep with my 6mo so bedtime is us rocking him to sleep then transferring with me side lying and feeding otherwise he wakes when we transfer him to the mattress. The unique times when he does unlatch while I’m still awake i can roll away but he usually stirs quite soon after. His bedtime is 8 he usually latches and unlatches 2-3 times until going to a deep sleep around 9:30

I’m wanting to spend more time with my husband but we can’t really do it at night unless he comes and lays with me but then we have to whisper or use headphones to watch anything.

I talked to my mum recently and she asked how my baby’s sleeping. I said good he’s waking only 2-3 times most nights but it’s normal and we’re fine cosleeping is what works best.

She then goes on about because he’s started solids he’ll sleep better now and he SHOULD be sleeping 10-4 atleast

Also continued to call him spoilt because I cosleep

It’s so annoying like times have changed stfu