u/ClaraEM99

It'll be alright (whistling)

My fiance heard a song at work and doesn't know the name of it, he said it goes "it'll be alright, it'll be alright" then somebody starts whistling after that. That's all he knows about it, he works in retail so it would be something you'd hear at a store. He also said it sounded like a younger guy singing the song.

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u/ClaraEM99 — 1 day ago

Should I get this tooth removed?

I got one side of my wisdom teeth removed six years ago so my teeth shifted. I did have gingivitis for a bit but it hasn't been as prominent for awhile now, and I do have periodontal disease. I don't know when but this tooth started receding more than the rest of my teeth. It's not loose, but if I move it with my fingers it feels very very very slightly wiggly. I'm getting married next year and I'm very self conscious about the way it looks when I get pictures taken. Should I try to get a gum graft? Do I need to get the tooth removed? Should I get a dental implant? Any help is appreciated.

u/ClaraEM99 — 5 days ago

I'm not religious. Why do I feel guilty about not "waiting" for marriage?

For context, I'm talking about not being a "virgin" on my wedding day. I'm 27 years old and first had sex when I was 16 with my first long term boyfriend. At the time, I was anxious about it only because 1.) it was new of course, and 2.) he wasn't a virgin and I was worried I would like, disappoint him or something? Anyway, over the past 11 years I've had many boyfriends and hookups, not something that I'm particularly happy about or proud of but it happened. My fiancé has only been with 5 people, including me. I've been with close to or over 30. He doesn't care about it, but it's been eating at me a lot lately and I have no idea why. I wasn't raised religiously, I've never been interested in becoming Christian or Catholic so I don't really care about the idea of staying abstinent until you get married. I think it could potentially be because I believe in past lives and I feel like I had a life where I dealt with a lot of religious guilt, whereas I'm more of a spiritual/pagan/wiccan type of person in my current life. I don't care that my fiancé isn't a "virgin", so why am I thinking about it so much? Have any of you gone through this too? Do I need to talk to my therapist about it? Any help would be very appreciated.

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u/ClaraEM99 — 5 days ago
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Hi, I need help with coming up with a diet I can actually eat. I'm a 27 year old woman and I got diagnosed with autism at 25 I think? So fairly recently lol which means my entire life I've struggled with eating certain things due to textures and tastes. I am a type 2 diabetic and now currently dealing with a fatty liver because of this.

I struggle badly with fruits and vegetables the most. I need something that's not crunchy and doesn't taste like it just came out of the ground lol I cannot stand lettuce, cauliflower, or broccoli and I can't eat bananas raw. I can do spinach but I am still struggling with that one because it's new and I'm not used to having it in things yet.

I am wanting to try to do some hidden veggie/fruit recipes if possible. I absolutely love to make smoothies! Anything that can keep me from nearly puking because of the texture is ideal. I feel like I should basically be eating baby food at this point lol but my biggest problem is snacking for sure. Anything that could suppress my appetite would definitely be helpful.

My fiance cooks for us almost every day so I want to try things he would be capable of making, which isn't much lol he'll pretty much make anything that I ask him to. He is also autistic and deals with the same issue as me when it comes to fruits/vegetables/textures/tastes. Any help is appreciated!!!

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u/ClaraEM99 — 7 days ago

I'm considering not even doing a wedding party, but I've already spent money on "bridesmaid boxes" and asked outside of that as well. My fiance has way more friends than I do so he's having trouble picking who to ask because of that. I just feel like it's adding more stress to the wedding planning for us but at the same time I feel bad/awkward not having people in my wedding. What do I do? What did you do?

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u/ClaraEM99 — 11 days ago