u/Cinnamon_Ocelot

Accidentally developed feelings for a man earlier this year. we are going on six months of being together and im really happy, being with him has added so much positivity to my life. I feel like we are both so aligned in many ways.

I want to move to Canada in the next couple years. That’s easy for me as I’m a dual citizen and do-able for him as he works in a highly in-demand field (he could get a work visa pretty fast)

I’m waiting on working out a couple things, then I’m going to GTFO the states

I recently approached him casually about moving and he didn’t seem interested at all.

Now I’m not sure what to do. I havnt gotten this close to someone in almost a decade so I don’t know what happens next. Do I breakup with him if we can’t come to a mutual understanding? Or do we go through the motions of being together (getting closer, meeting family) with the understanding that we’ll have to break it off when I leave?

Girl Lunch is an entree of eggs with herbs and A LOT of black pepper with a side of microwave heated corn tortillas

Hello scooter people!

First time changing the oil for my Yiben Ice Bear Flash - FLASH (PMZ150-4) with 4 stroke engine….actually it’s the first time changing oil on anything for me

I got a higher viscosity than recommended. I live in a hot climate where summer days are about 110F/43C

My concern is it sounds like my manual is trying to say NOT to use synthetic oil (but I could be totally misunderstanding the instructions) given the oil I bought is synthetic, I though using synthetic was pretty standard, should synthetic be fine?

Also shows that this is for wet clutch, given I’m on a scooter is using an oil for wet clutch ok?

Photos show bright silver and pale gold
Last photo shows antique bronze, warm bright gold, and rose gold

No makeup in photos NMIP

I hate places that sell overpriced coffee but tells customers to GTFO

Let’s be real here, when I go up to the barista, look them in the eye, pay $9 for a coffee drink, I’m not doing it to say “la-de-dah” I need my overpriced sweet treat. I’m paying $9 to use a tiny tiny spot in your seating area for an hour…maybe an hour and a half MAX.

I already know I’m going to get “Well it’s because people show up and sit there for 4 hours”
…to this I say, why don’t coffee places just add WiFi limits? A nearby small chain offers WiFi codes that last for 1.5 hours and it seems like a win-win for the chain and the customer. Customers can use WiFi as much as they want for 1.5 hours, or more if they buy another drink once the time is up. And small local coffee chains don’t have to worry about people sticking around excessively without paying.

I’m also going to hear “then don’t support them, go to local chains” 
…this is SOLID advice, but unfortunately a lot local chains (not all) are following suit by overpricing their drinks and offering literally 0 seating

It just irks me, ffs at least let me charge my phone in your store without giving me side-eye when I just spent almost an hours wage on my drink 

Edit: spelling errors